my boyfriend abuses me and harasses me.
i wish i didn’t love him, but i do. everytime i try to leave him (which is about once a week), he will first lock me into a room with him and scream and throw things and hold me down and spit in my face, and then will break down in tears and tell me how i just drive him to the point of insanity because he loves me so much. each time he does this, i break down in tears and tell him i can’t live like that anymore and he usually lets me leave. when he barrages me with phone calls the next day, i will inevitably take him back under the promise that if he ever touches me or threatens me again, i will leave. on several occasions, i didnt take him back and after a few weeks he started blackmailing me and threatening my family until eventually i had no choice but to take him back. i had a restraining order on him for awhile, but he contacted me once (even though he was not allowed to) to tell me basically that if i did not take him back, my life would be ruined forever. i found out last week that i am now pregnant with his baby. i am completely lost. please help.
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