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…Can only see your portrait if people sign up for it. I sincerely hope this is not some cheap way to get more people to hook up to that site… If it’s not you might want to put some things down here for people to look at. good luck.

If you paid with a Visa, you can call the customer service number on your card and get the amount refunded. I think the other major credit/debit cards offer this as well. They will refund it then fight the company to reimburse them. It’s worth a shot.

Holy cow! You sound so down on yourself. I wouldn’t want to take a chance on a guy like that. If you are trying to joke, don’t put yourself down. I mean you actually call yourself a jerk.

You wan to meet someone who is SAD? With the emphasis in caps it sounds like you are looking for someone who is depressed. Is that really who you are looking for?

Maybe you mean sentimental, someone who cries at sad movies. Or someone who is empathetic, a person who cries at the tragedies on the evening news. Your puctuation gives me the impression that you don’t really care about what you are writing. It seems that you just slapped it on the page without much thought.
Here’s an edited version of the beginning:

My name is David. I’d really like to meet someone who’s COOL but warm, sentimental but hopeful, and loves being in LOVE! Wow, did I say that? I guess I did. And its true.

Most people would say I’m a smart guy. I’ve been characterized as someone who’ll grow on you, which is fortunate because I get nervous and tend to do something foolish when I meet a girl for the first time.

My family is important to me. And I am “medium” happy as in im not “happy happy happy!” all the time (but … who is?) :-)

It’s not retarded. As a matter of fact you were just very honest and there are people out there like you.
What you just wrote needs to go in your profile. It sounds very sincere and not hokey like the previous stuff.

” have such different interests in what i believe, and how I spend my time. I used to be like everyone else, and then something happened. Its funny I used to be a Republican and I was happy. But when I learned history of our nation, history of the world, the labor movements, the choices our big business makes, etc… I became a Democrat, and now that Im more aware, I think im less naieve and in some ways, a bit sadder. Does this make sense?”

Perfect for trying t find someone who shares you views and interests!

Oh by the way, I think you haven’t found anyone like yourself in person yet, because you have changed your place in society. You don’t know where to go to find people like you. You also BELIEVE there is no one else like you. So you aren’t giving people an opportunity. You are rejecting them, they are’t rejecting you.

I tell you this from experience.

Sorry for the three posts. Kept getting interrupted. Just looked at your other post. You are anxious to find someone because of your ex. Relax. Ususally, when you aren’t looking is when you find someone. So what if you get the extra six months on match.com. It does NOT make you a loser. But try to get something else in the forefront of your mind.

Right now there are political campaigns getting underway. Go volunteer for the candidatwe of your choice or volunteer for some other cause that you feel passionate about. It will help you find friends who are of like mind. It will take your mind of your ex. It will help you feel like you are doing something worthy for greater good. And maybe you’ll find someone to start dating. But don’t make the girlfriend thing the reason you go.

Okay. I’m finished. I think. :)

Scrap Match.com

I don’t know anyone who’s actually made that thing work for them. You’d have better luck at myspace, or in a bar. Honestly.

I’ve tried match.com and failed—their male to female ratio is high (more boys than girls) and a lot of the time, when girls sign up, their mailbox gets flooded, with crap. I went on ONE date, and the guy totally ended up being a wimpy jerk! Ha.

Getting your money back, you can use it to take your date out. If it hasn’t worked, then why bother taking more time on it? You didn’t loose, the system just wasn’t right for you. Don’t let consumerism rule your life…their ads are made to make you think, if you can’t do it—you must be a loser.

In chess, with a rook&pawn you can execute a move to regain your queen. hah. I think, I don’t remember chess too well, maybe not?

LOL. Yeah, I just joined this space…and well, work+project_end=wtf am I doing?

I just know from experience which is supose to be something you talk about, or so they say. A friend out in Baltimore, when they moved here, joined match, couldn’t find anyone…I even took head shots for him. He ended up going to school, learning chinese and going overseas, where he met the love of his life. Sweet, huh?

Screw match.com they lie.

Ok, I think I’m done.

I also thought it was funny that you were korean and didn’t speak korean, I’m 1/2 and well, my mom gets on my case for not speaking korean—although she didn’t really have the patience to teach it to me. I only know the bad words… :-/ hah.

Goodluck in finding Ms. Right.