i STILL cant stop thinking about my ex!
its been 3 years since we split, but half a year ago he wanted me back but wen i ended it with the guy i was with he had found another woman! i no he loves me! all i have tried to do is move on but hes even in my dreams, i wake up feeling so upset because i no its not real! then i go all day thinking about him! its really getting to me i want him in my life again! but i darent email him again because he’s been practically ignoring me, iv only sent 2 though. another thing that worries me is that he is in afghan, in the army! i want to talk to him please help… i dont no wot to do
Since writing this post nat_cov may have helped people, but has not within the last 4 days. nat_cov is a verified member, has been around for 6 years, 8 months and has 1 posts and 4 replies to their name.
Post Tags (11)
i STILL cant stop thinking about my ex! its been 3 years since we split, but half a year ago he wanted me back but wen i ended it with the guy i was with he had found another woman! i no he loves me! all i have tried to do is move on but hes even in my dreams, i wake up feeling so upset because i no its not real! then i go all day thinking about him! its really getting to me i want him in my life again! but i darent email him again because he’s been practically ignoring me, iv only sent 2 though. another thing that worries me is that he is in afghan, in the army! i want to talk to him please help… (a guys point of view would be great)i dont no wot to do
I’m a woman and I don’t accept to be a second plate for no one I don’t care if the plate is before the other plate it’s called respect, You my friend if he has a woman why would you want to be with him and become an entree’ plate or a dessert plate. Your worth more than this, Don’t you think your worth more than this?
That how follish it is your relationship broke because you thought you will go back with him, As you see the last guy you were seeing has respect for him self you broke the relationship and he moved on like the train. I know you want this guy back but your wasting your time waiting. Your years are going by and your getting older, I will try to push you to move forward.
Start by making friends, and going places, invite your guy friend to a play or go ice skating or even watch a soccer game. You have to meet people. Even go eating for lunch, I won’t say dinners because it can get dangerous. The idea is to get to know people.
look get over them go do u try to find out more about what you want okay because that person probably no thinking of you if they are then how come hes your ex do you okay that mean go about your business and leave the past alone!!!!!!!!!
we didnt split up because it was a failure or anything, it was because we were young and he was leaving for 6 months. the main thing is i want him as a friend if nothing else! i want to know he is ok, i was a part of his life for 4 years and i dont want to through away a possible lifetime friend
thanks for your help :-D
Do you think this is normal your thinking of your ex in one hand and in the other hand you don’t want to lose the friendship
it equals to don’t complain it your fault and keep waking up upset.
There is a solution called move on but as you see you don’t want to hear the solution. Be happy with your choice.
thanks for your help
I also still love my ex-husband. I know that people will say “move on, dummy.” But this doesn’t stop the pain. My ex fell in love with his best friends wife. We were married for 24 years.She is much younger with two small children. I have no family of my own and he never wanted to have children while married to me. He now has a new family and life while I am alone. The friens that we had were as a couple and connected to the buisness we had. Those friends are still his. He was my life because he was my family and we had the buisness together. I don’t even have a career that is mine alone, so life is very alone. There is no comfort or feeling of belonging anywhere. And in spite of this I still love him very much. It has been 2 1/2 years and I still feel the same.
my ex wanted me back 2 months after we split, when i decided to give him a second chance he did a disappearing act. didn’t answer my calls, texts, emails. no explanation as to why. so now i’m just in a state of confusion, anger and hurt. what should i do? thanks.
don’t call, text,email, nothing ,just don’t let him know you miss him. it will get better I was were you are now. good luck in what you do.
my ex left me because she told me she had fallen out of love for me, i believe and still believe shes the love of my life. we were together for 3 years but alot of dark bad things happened to me during our last year together & i was so wrapped up in my problems that i neglected her & when id realised what i had done it was too late. i believe she found someone else & i think thats who she is with now. all we had was each other & she wanted more & the only way for us to move on in life was to split but now ive found myself i want her back & i know i could make her happy just as i used to. after we broke up she realised how much i love her & i think she was having second thoughts but she alos knew we couldnt move on in life whilst being together at that moment in time. i still dream of her every night even thou i have found someone else & its been 8 months. she completely cut all contact with me in order to move on & i darnt contact her because i feel that because she ended it with me she should make that move. I dont want to lose her as a friend because she was the only person that ever realy knew the real me & i know if we met again now i could make her happy. i really dont know what to do because i rwally do think she is the one.
contact her if you feel she’s the one… life is to short to have regrets. if she doesn’t want anything to do with you at least you know where you stand and can move on. BUT there is a chance she feels the same… you never know!
It has been a year and a half and i am dating sum1 else now but my ex has started talking to me again who i never really got over, and now i cant stop thinking about him, at home, at work (even worse we work for the same organisation), in my dreams. We had a rough break up and he still seems a bit imature, where as my new boy friend is almost too mature. I dont know what to do i have this yearning that i want to be back with him but then i think about how and y we broke up and i just get so upset and confused.
It is really hard to move on..i broke up with my partner of 3 yrs.He got married to another girl within one month of our break up. He calls me sometimes but I dont pick up the phone.Its really hard for me. I dont have much close friends and my family is far away in a different country and doesnot have a clue to what I am going through. i cant sleep properly. I want him back but I dont want to break his marriage.i dont know how to move on. I still do love him but he cheated on me. Why this is happening to me..Please help me..dont know how to move on…and ease this constant pain and worry and unsettles feeling :(
Me and my ex broke up over a year ago and now I’m dating someone else for a little over 6 months but everyday I think about my ex I even dream about him and sometimes I even wish people would bring him up so I can talk about him he made me so happy but then be cheated on me and I just couldn’t take him seriously anymore so we were always on n off and I thoughtt that I was alsways gonna have him around but now that his actually gone it kills me I just wish I could hear his voice at least once I’m so confused Idk if I still love him or I’m just really obsessed Haha but it seems to me like he was the love of my life and I jst wish that he would do something the smallest thing to show me he misses me too I knoooow for a fact that since me he hasn’t had another girlfriend and its been over a year now
ThankS to prophetharry@ ymail. com for getting me my man back. he took his time to do the spell for bringing my man back to me. I went to 3 different spell casters, but only prophetharry got the job done. I really wasn’t sure anymore if spells were real, but now with prophetharry I know they are. I appreciate all his time, effort, and energy he puts during the spell cast. now my lover is more open and he admitted he loves me and really wants to come back together After a year of separation we are now back together,
My problem was very difficult and it made me come to a very close to giving up but I WAS recommended TO this SPELL CASTER dr.marnish, I was very skeptical about using a love spell i when i finally gave a try, to my surprise after 4 days that I had my spell cast by dr.marnish, I was absolutely shocked that my boyfriend called me to apologize to me, he (practically knelt on his knees) begging me to take him back, (email removed) com brought my lover back to me he is the one of the cheapest and best service i have ever seen anywhere. Sometimes dr.marnish scares me with what he knows, but in a good way. finally my lover returned to me. we are back and happier than ever.
helen01parke invited 1 user to read this post 9 months, 1 week ago.
Invite Others to Help
A logged in and verified Help.com member has the ability to setup a Friends List and invite others to help with posts.