Love help: i read my boyfriends cell and it was a message from a girl lindsay it said lets have sex tonight again what should i do? - Help.com

i read my boyfriends cell and it was a message from a girl lindsay it said lets have sex tonight again what should i do?


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Jeff offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Admin Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Gamla Stan, 26, SE | 1 year, 4 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Well, go the PI route and follow him, or do the confrontation right now. Neither will go nicely really. :/

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DoubleO offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Sayreville, NJ, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Confront him and then dump him. You need someone that is going to respect you not cheat on you. Good luck.

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Cooney.Stephen offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Confront him, don’t stalk him because thats actually a very immoral and dangerous thing to do. You could also just leave him if he has other flaws and problems you are dealing with.

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Jeff offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Admin Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Gamla Stan, 26, SE | 1 year, 4 months ago (19 minutes after post)

I’m not sure it’s “immoral” — sneaky, sure. Untrusting, definitely.

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-Camithings- online Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
US | 1 year, 4 months ago (27 minutes after post)

confront him!!!!!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (46 minutes after post)

Wow! ThAt sucks! I would confront him, ask if he would like to invite “Lindsey” over for dinner and a movie then leave his *** standing there dumbstruck.

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Chaotic Kittie offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Elizabethton, TN, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

Confront him,then dump him cause you can do better! What the F*** is wrong with guys anymore! LOL

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Kyle_L offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 hours, 13 minutes after post)

that does seem very serious. but, don’t jump to conclusions. Just because that lindsay girl wants to have sex with, him doesn’t mean that he has or ever will have sex with her

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minorthreat offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (4 hours, 33 minutes after post)

Break up with him, and then tell the other girl what a creep he is. Then laugh at him for being such a god **** loser.

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tomboi2007 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (7 hours, 21 minutes after post)

what time was the text message sent, if she was implying tonight then hold him up, tell him you wan’t to go out on a date or to the movies, whatever he’s going to do say you wan’t to go with him. try and keep him in your sight without making things obvious

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DoubleO offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Sayreville, NJ, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (17 hours, 20 minutes after post)

Why go to all that trouble. If he is indeed cheating then let him go. You deserve better.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

DUMP HIM!!!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 day, 6 hours after post)

If he loves you enough to cheat on you, you should value him enough to ensure his utter social destruction. Make his faithlessness known on the internet, then nobody will want to date him again. Ruin his social life in any way you possibly can, try your best to make that fool a wreck of mind and soul and body!

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1 year, 4 months ago (1 day, 17 hours after post)

confront him and sit him down and have a good talk about it with him

work it out

you go girlfriend!!

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1 year, 4 months ago (2 days, 23 hours after post)

Text the girl back from his phone when he isn’t there. Tell her to meet you somewhere in order to do the dirty deed. She will think its you and meet up, then you can confront her, and kick her *** if you feel the need.

Sure, a guy can cheat, but not if you school all the competetion!

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1 year, 4 months ago (2 days, 23 hours after post)

of course.. by saying “she will think its you” I meant to say “she will think its him”

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