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may i ask what you are sad about?
Suicide is not really going to make you feel better. I know this sounds totally Mr.Rogers or something, but everybody feels sad or angry or tired sometimes. Get through it. Is it serious? Because if it is, tell your parents or a counselor or your teacher. I know, you’re probably thinking, “My parents just don’t understand!” That’s not entirely true. They were your age, you know. They might have had a problem like yours once. What ARE you sad about? Are you in a rut? Get a pet, get a job. It will work.
I am so tired of everything, work no longer dulls the pain, I feel have nothing left. just forget it, whom ever monitors this just delet this.
no we can’t forget. try talking about your feelings to someone just spill everything out. it will make you feel better
Your parents, friends, family, all care about you right? Imagine their pain and grief if they lost you. Let’s say you grew up and married, then had a little boy. He grew and so did your love for him. Then, suddenly he just goes off and kills himself, writing a note about how he has nothing to live for. You didn’t see this coming. How would you feel? I am sure you’d feel horrible and miss him so much.
Find some kind of hobby to pass your time, like playing a sport or taking walks to cool off some steam. There’s gotta be something you were destined to do. Like maybe someday you might discover a cure for acne or cancer. If you’re dead, you’ll never get to reach that goal. I am going to be a writer. That’s definitely something to live for.
” Life is a tragedy for those who feel and comedy for those who think- anonymous”
With that said, STOP feeling. Start thinking. Get involved. Emotions are nothing but a temporary feelings. It comes and goes away just like a season. If you are feeling down or sad, dont be sad thinking about it. Its pretty normal and as I am writing this, somewhere deep down inside I feel the same way. “Thats the way it is. Nobody can make you feel interior without your permission” so try to gain self esteem.
I totally get were you are coming from. We have to stick together and not let the world drag us down. I know I am trying like hell not to crack.
hang on….everything can change so much in one day…..do something for someone else today…and dont let them know it was you…………..take some amino acid pills and omega 3s….get out in nature and look at a flower or leaf….SEE it…look at the color, smell, veins, where it is at…it slives by plants that support it…it gives back to the ground…it eats minerals, sun and air…look at nature without looking for a solution…beauty will come to you
i am very depress i don’t have any job,i apply lot of co. but……….no result.in my past i work in 3 co.but i left them b’coz of fun.but now i need it .i am so tense what should i do.i blame to myself.o god plz forgive me
i used to feel the same way u did. i attempted suicide many times a few years ago and i also self harmed, however when i lost my best friend i saw the pain that it leaves for those left, and after councelling and tablets i’ve realised that everything, yes everything, will get better in the end, if u choose to seek out the help that most definatley is there for you. and if u dont no wher 2 go then try your doctor, they can refer you to where you need. there are still times when i feel like i cant go on, or i wna take the pain out on my body, but then i remember that altho when i feel like this there seems no escape, that eventually my feelings will change, but only i can make the steps to do this. i promise that there is light at the end of the tunnel, no matter how hard it is to see.
Sometimes, you go through things that make death look not only attractive but positively the only way out. I had to experience those things - loosing people I loved, people who were my whole Universe, my life.
I was orphaned as a small child but my grandfather and older brother gave me and my younger brother so much love and care, that we never felt deprived of anything; you could say I had a happy childhood. But then, in one of those terrible days you’d give anything to change, I lost my husband, our unborn child, two of my brothers, my sister-in-law and all 5 of my cousins.
God knows I wanted death, wanted it so much. But I had to live on because there were others who depended upon me - my younger brother, my elder brother’s orphaned son and my best friend, who had to go through similar experience. It’s been over 5 years now, and I still make myself get up every morning and face the world without them. Not sure it will ever get better but I’m damned sure that as long as people I love need me, I’m not going anywhere.
They say time heals all the wounds; it doesn’t. The feeling of loss and emptiness just gets worse over the years. But I’ve had my happy moments as well, moments that make it all meaningful: I saw my brother’s graduation, the pride on his face as he landed on his first job, watched my nephew grow up and turn into an amazing and remarkable boy, accompanied him on his first day to school and watched him help his sport team win the first place, I saw my best friend finally finding happiness with a most wonderful woman (my husband’s niece) and they have since welcomed a beautiful baby boy. On days like that, I feel alive.
I know that one day I’ll be united with my them. And on that day, I want to meet them with straight face and free consciousness. If I chose to end this life, how could I ever face my brother and sister-in-law, people who practically raised me, and tell them I left their son alone? Or leave my brother, who’s gone through as much as I have? Or explain my weakness to my husband, the bravest man I’ve ever known?
Life goes on; if you can’t live yourself, than make it worthwhile for others.
Ive been searching for help forever……………its over goodbye :.(
If someone took away the thing that is making you sad and the feeling lifted, would you want to die? i think the answer would be no. give the thing that is making you feel sad to someone else (teacher, parent, friend). let them work it out for you. stay focused on the things that do make you happy. let others take the burden off you.
in my point of view whenever any body is sad, got to say whats up and laugh, nothing is so good about life,some people say love is something,but it is not.they just need to think it is
what is love?do u know?have love for any one?if yes,it mean u love some one.but its not love dear.love is nothing.if u have feelings for some one,it not mean she/he must have feeling for u.may be she/he loves other.so dont think only one.u must discover that who loves u?thats one is your loveeeeeeeeee………
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