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MSBRIA_0 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (8 minutes after post)

just go with the flow!!!! you shouldnt fear rejection because not everyone is going to like you!!and your in LA that is like the city of shallowness..lol.. just relax your person will find you!!!!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Really the over the last 4 months, I haven’t been subjected to any of the typical “shallowness” that you would expect. Truthfully, I’ve been doing a hell of a job networking and probably already guaranteed myself a job once I’ve finished school…its just the whole dating scene that I suck at. Its a good thing its not important who you date in Hollywood…wait a sec…crap!

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MSBRIA_0 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (16 minutes after post)

plus ur only 19.. i bet there is mad pretty women all around you!! have fun

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (21 minutes after post)

Yes, but let me tell you if you have ANY sense of self doubt you should come within 500 miles of L.A. Of course of the last couple of months I have been developing a more “F’em” kind of attitude which I think might be a step in the right direction. It can’t get worse.

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MSBRIA_0 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (27 minutes after post)

u shouldnt..if that is your pic u not bad looking at all….nice eyes!!! lol

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (32 minutes after post)

Surprisingly, not the first time I’ve heard that. Apparently the one thing I have going is eyes, which I think are a major importance…at least when I’m looking for someone….oh yeah, thanks for the compliment.

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MSBRIA_0 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (35 minutes after post)

ur welcome!! i hope you feel better!!!! keep ur head up!! if u wanna talk again!! just HOLLA!! lol

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (38 minutes after post)

Sure, anytime. I’ve realized that I don’t sleep and at night I just rotate around a number of sites on the internet until I pass out from boredom….so yeah, fun times. later

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MSBRIA_0 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (41 minutes after post)

lol!!! i work at night!!! i get paid $13 bucks to do about 10 min worth of work!!! so i know the feeling!!!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (45 minutes after post)

I’m really amazed at what a human can do on only twenty minutes of sleep. I do admit that every couple of days I do crash…and hard. I fall asleep at like four in the afternoon and don’t wake up till like two pm the next day…not a fun experience. I’m just worried when I go back to visit the east coast. I just know I’m going to be ALL messed up.

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Queen Elizatron 4000 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 hours, 13 minutes after post)

“Is it even possible to have a relationship?”

Possible but not needed. Focus on school.

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jjls2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 hours, 22 minutes after post)

i think your very handsome. fear of rejection is slowing u down the ONE could have been standing right in front of u and u didnt even see her cause of that fear. if u dont look u cant see.just be sure u put school first but seperate the 2. make time for both. go out to a club or whatever it is u like to do. i met my hubby in a grocerie store. so u can meet anyone anywhere. Good luck.

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skypie 1 #
ID | 1 year, 4 months ago (4 hours, 58 minutes after post)

You’re still young. Its allright to avoid deep relationship to focus on study or career, but never reject a new friend, male and female. Just treat them as your friend. If you starts to feel awkward /w someone, just take it back to friend level, you’ll be fine :)

lousracing200 3 #
Los Angeles, CA, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (13 hours, 49 minutes after post)

Your have your entire life to have a relationship with someone. But if you have a good opportunity with a great girl you think is good for u and her, take it jujmp in but keep your career going. Every one can have there cake and it eat they just dont want to.

talk to some players to learn some play you sound naive in that corner

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Is it even possible to have a relationship?

Ok, so I’m 19 and going to school for something that I love and everything has been great…except for the lack of any relationship. First off, I’m not so sure its a good idea. I mean, why put distractions in my way while I’m trying to get my carrer started? Sure I get somewhat depressed every now and then but it’ll end up better…right?

I just moved to Los Angeles from a relatively small town on the other end of the country, so I’m still trying to get adjusted. Truthfully, I’m a nice guy and pretty smart for my age and in the past I’ve been able to hold conversations with women and have no problem but as soon as it starts heading towards a relationship I go completely stupid.

So there is a question in here. Is it worth it? I’ve never been in a real relationship because I’ve always gone with the motto “If I don’t try, I can’t be rejected” but its just getting worse and worse when it comes to the feelings of depression. Funny how easy it is to feel alone in a city of millions.

So if you have advice please enlighten me. Thanks in advance.

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