girl help: i am a 14 1/2 year old girl and i have just discovered masturbation.

sneezl

i am a 14 1/2 year old girl and i have just discovered masturbation.

it feels really REALLY good, but i feel guilty and dirty afterwards. i know that it is a totally healthy and normal thing to do but… HELP!

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Limon 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (5 minutes after post)

I don’t think you should feel guilty or dirty. I believe it is a safe and healthy way to get in touch (no pun intended) with your sexuality.

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sarabobara 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (7 minutes after post)

I agree with Limon. My take on masturbation is this: It is much safer than going to a sleazy club and hooking up with a stranger. With that said, if you enjoy it - feel free to enjoy it!

sneezl #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (11 minutes after post)

well how do i not feel guilty

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wretch 1 #
Durham, NH, US | 1 year, 5 months ago (11 minutes after post)

either do it and enjoy it or don’t - but don’t do it and then waste time feeling guilty… ok?

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sneezl #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (28 minutes after post)

thanks.well… as long as im experimenting, what is the best way to do it?

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A-K-S 2 #
Cape Coral, FL, US | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

enjoy, as long as it does not become an obsession. too much of anything is a bad thing.

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asdfasdfasdf 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 hour, 52 minutes after post)

Its nothing to feel guilty about and anyone that says so is stupid. So heres some information to…um, help.

http://www.handbag.com/relationships/…

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Timmy 6 #
Colorado Springs, CO, US | 1 year, 5 months ago (8 hours, 25 minutes after post)

its nothing to feel guilty about
i do it too

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bretnova 1 #
Colorado Springs, CO, US | 1 year, 5 months ago (8 hours, 27 minutes after post)

yes that is nothing to worry

but if you feel dirrty now wait til sex

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Timmy 6 #
Colorado Springs, CO, US | 1 year, 5 months ago (8 hours, 51 minutes after post)

yea what bretnova said

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sexwit #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

i started masterbating when i was 12 (i’m 16) and only do it like once a month. don’t feel guilty at all. When you’re horny…. whats better than it.. nothing, it’s safe, quick and fun!

HAVE FUN!
EXPRESS YOUR SEXUALNESS

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zakeg9 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 week, 5 days after post)

ive tried it twice and i also feel guilty….dont do it anymore!!…small pleasures in life dont get u anyware!!!

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problem859 0 #
Meriden, CT, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

In the Bible it says that masturbation is a sin, religious or not your most likely to feel bad because its wrong

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pepsicol #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

for all you ladies out there i thinkthat it is ok to masturbate…it helps you get over the craves for sex and you dont have to feel guilty about it

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rjensto #
Jacksonville, FL, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 months after post)

oh my god its so normal don’t feel dirty. even 10 year olds do it!
its so normal you could post it on a friggin website. i mean im a girl and i watch videos of people my age masturbating so that way i don’t get sex crazed, but i don’t know of any new ones does anyone know of any websites that show videos people the age of 12-15 masturbating? (im 14 too)

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rjensto #
Jacksonville, FL, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 months after post)

its normal

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