My lovelife hasn’t exactly been a fairy-tale, but it hasn’t been hell either.
I’ve had about 4 “serious” boyfriends and was content with all of them untill they broke up with me. #1 was cheating on me and told me he just didn’t want to be with me anymore. #2 and 3 already had girlfriends and when they told me at the last minute, they expected me to go along with them dating other women without me knowing. #4 was a mess. He was cheating on me and broke up with me because I didn’t trust him enough. Inbetween, I had flings too, where we didn’t date. NONE of them turned out good and I was used- and now I can’t get over that. My current boyfriend is amazing and really supportive of me, but I’m worried he’ll cheat on me or dump me because I’m not as “wild” as he is. He has a diffrent lifestyle than me, and is a few years older.
I tell him this and he reasons with me, and I couldn’t be happier. But it’s hard for me to feel comfortable and I want to VERY badly. I love him and don’t want to bring undeeded stress, but I can’t seem to get the bad thoughts out of my mind because of my past relationships.
– How can you overcome this, and is it normal? –
I trust him with all my life and heart but it’s hard to let go of the fear of being cheated on or used.
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