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Just be yourself. If you are supposed to get together, you will. If you aren’t, you won’t. Don’t try to be anything/anyone you’re not. What’s so special about this guy that you need to attract him, anyway?
Smile. Say hi. Ask him questions.
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Flirt a little bit; if that doesn’t come naturally to you, do something else that does. Don’t overdo or you might scare him off. Pay attention to how he reacts to you so you know what works and what doesn’t, and you get an inkling of how he feels about you.
ive been talking to him tonight..i dont think he likes me….grrr lol… hr just kept talkin bout other girls n how hardly any girls fancy him n all the ones he likes dont like him back n how hes not confident to show girls hes interested etc etc
That’s the great thing about talking to people and getting to know them vs. fantasizing about them from afar. You’ll realize that fantasy and reality have a pretty harsh difference. Time to move on! Good luck.
well i like this guy a lot and i dont kno how 2 act when im around him. im a big flirt and all but its just realyhard cuz hes very misteries and since valentins days almost coming i kind want him 2 ask me lol so help!!!!
my friend present me to his friend and i like him so we become friend but the i started to like him and sometimes i be like mean to him and sometimes nice but another girl like him and my cousin ask him if he like me and he said no now i dont know what to do cuz i really really like him
some times i dont know how to act around him and im nevousbut like now i dont took to him that much
theres this super hot guy i like and we have lots of mutual freinds but he doesnt know i exist and every time i see him i freeze up
figure out what he like then try to use them to youre advantage this should work beacuse it is coming from a guy
im going through the same situation, except for the fact that the guy i like isn’t talkative. And, the fact that if i started flirting with him the entire grade would make a big deal about it. I’d tell him that i like him, but a while ago one of my friends already did and he said she was annoying. i’m afraid that he’s going to say the same thing about me!
i sort of like this guy …he plays hard to get also he is mean , i tried to open a conversation with him like” do you this person? he is my couzin” his answer was so cold. what should i do? i really like him he is cool and popular
*do you know this person?”
well. there was this guy, he used to be my best friend. then he sorta moved on to the more popular people. it hurt to see him go because i actually liked him. i never did get over it. now i still like him and every time in art class i talk to him and say things about how his drawing is better than mine and ask if he can help me. it totally worked cuz one day his friend told me he liked me and we started goin out! yayy
well i have this problem with guyz!! they do not seem to be attracted to me
what’s wrong?? is it me?
im not fat ..im not ugly…
hi guys well i like this guy named daniel and i really like him and his sisters say he likews me and he dosent want to go out with me because my dad is his teacher sooo… how do i get him to ask me out
Just talk to him and ask him if it bothers him if your dad is his teacher. or on msn ask him that if they went out would it be weird if your dad was ahis teacher
if you guys did ever go out, talk to your dad. im 18 turning 19 soon, my dad taucght this guy a really liked and i did this, and we eneded up going out.
I really like this guy, but i think he likes this other girl, what should i do.
he kind of flirts with me, and i kind of flirt back. should i just keep doing what im doing?
the 19 yearold that was talking beofre her name his elly and my name is bre
i like this guy for about a year but at the time he had a girlfriend and know he does not.. he us to call me and tex me all the time and know he does not. but when i go out he there and he alway look at me when i talk to guys or dancing with them or friends.he will talk to me when we are out even is he with his friends. and he gives me a ride home .. how do i make him like me..steph
well i nkow this sounds cheep but whenever he looks at you stop and smile or even
a little wink.it will make him smile.when he gives you a ride home talk to him,
get to know him a little better.Yuo guys will know alot more about each other
and he will soon realize that you care for him.
ok well in know this guy and i really think he is cute.
he is my best friend but not want of those really good ones
he likes a some girl at my school because she says he has a nice ***.=(
i just want to let him knoe that i really like him and i understand him more than
anybody else does.how do i get him to talk to me more? or look at me more often? S.O.S.
There’s a guy I like so I’m writing a book.I’ll post it on here as soon as I’m done
I like this guy, but I don’t know how to get him to like me. I’ve liked him a long time, but we just friends. Does anyone know how to help me? Plus, there’s a handful boys that are asking me out tho. But, I LIKE my guy. :(
You always want what is out of reach. It’s human nature.
Go out with the guys asking you for a date. Get some dating experience. Get some perspective on different guys.
Ya the same thing happened with my friend. She liked this guy named Rob but he didnt like her. then someone else asked her out and she said yes, then Rob started to like her again. Guys are like that. Try saying yes and then he’ll probably start to like u
*I meant try saying yes to another guy that youre maybe not so crazy about
FLIRT…. guys love girls who like them, if he thinks you like him you will have a better chance.. don’t overdue it though, u might seem desperate.
i been likeing this guy for years and idk if he likes me what should i do
Hello, here is a scientific matter of what you should do when your heart stops beating:
Jumping - this will cause more defect, as well as hydration so your body will not beable to move.
Nothing - good bye, my fellow friend!
um…well how can i get this guy to like me?…the mean problem is that i go out with his friend..but i really likes him alot…how can i tell him that?..he bearly takes to me….sum1 plz help me!
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okayy so ive liked this guy for 4 years and we have been talking alott and i would always have a boyfriend and thenn when i didnt he would have a girl friend but now were both single and the other nightt he hooked up with me and told me he was interested but then the next day he said he didnt like me anymore because i seem like i have a low self confedence.
how do i fix that?
just be ur self and ask him questions then out of the blue ask if single if not ask more ?s then ask wanna go out it worked for me now i have a hot bf
hi i like this guy and the way i got him to ask me out was by saying hi, then we talked a little bit. (dont be shy!) then ask him if he wants to hang out later.
P.S. Make sure you get his phone #
I am in love with my best friend. Once you are that far gone there is no way out. I am contemplating leaving the country.
I like 4 guys in my class, Zachary Johns, Gage Millican, Ethan Holgate, and Jake Mabrey, WHAT IN THE WORLD SHOULD I DO?!? Please send me an E-mail and tell me…ask me questions give me answers or advice PLEASE IM SO CONFUSED!!!!!!!!!!
4 all u females out there who dont know how 2 ask a guy out just go up 2 him and say wat u realy feel
no way girl that NEVER works except in the movies!
well i like this guy and he has a girlfriend but she dosent like him and he is madly in love with her and he knows i like him and he flirts with me alllll the time but i asked him (in text) if he thought i was cute but he said idk and i really like him
**** you allll
i like this guy and he is popular and flirts with all the girls but he flirts with me a lot should i get over him? should i tell him? idk what to do and he already knows i like him UGH im stuck
i really like this boy. he’s popular and is really funny and we are kinda friends and have sat next to eachother in french for 2 years. all the other girls like him coz he is fit and has a six pack. i really like him because he is so funny and nice and talks to me (unlike most boys) and he is a gentleman. He’ll always hold the door open for me etc. ok so the six pack also!!Lots of my friends think he likes me but i dont know. one of his friends said he doesnt but i dont know who i can believe his friend might have been trying to protect him. i dont want him t know i like him unless i know he likes me. i dont have his number but i cant just ask. DONT TELL ME TO JUST ASK !!! how can i get him to notice me more and talk to me more?? also although he is so ppular he hasnt had a girlfriend in 3or 4 years but has asked loads of girls out (i have never had a boyfriend but am not that old anyway :P). if he supposedly likes me, WHY HASNT HE ASKED ME OUT or atleast asked for my number?? i cant stop thinking bout him and i need your help!!! please. :]
well, he could just be being a gentlemen. but he might also lik you , i kinda have been threw that situation, dont ask him for his number or dont ask him out. just talk to him alot in school and just be like we should hangout sometime like with a group a poeple so he wont think that you want to go on a date with him. do make it to obvious that you like him because he might not like you. but you also want to flirt just a little bit just to get him to notice you alot more. and just be yourself and if he doesn like you for who you are the he isnt worth your time. dont ever try to change yourself for one guy. theirs plenty of others that will like you for who you are. i hope my advise helped youu(: good luck !♥
so theres this guy in my class, and i started to like him, and i think he may like me as well, but im not sure… hes bestfriends with one of my good friends, my friend really likes to hug people and whenever his bestfriend is around (guy i like) and my friend hugs me, the guy i like either looks away but glances at me when i hug my friend back or just sits there and looks at us. and recently him and these kids that he talks to found out i like him, but the guy i like doesnt make fun of i, actually he hasnt really said anything about it, he just doesnt really talk to me, but recently like the past couple days he actually talked to me, like he knows my name, i dont recall ever telling him my name, nor my friend ever saying mmy name around him when i show up
do you think u could help me? plz email me
well i like this guy and he goes to a different school and i barely ever see him but we like eachother a lot! but he doesnt wanna go out because hes afraid we wont see eachother :/ helpp?
I like this guy from school and he’s with me in math and english, I never talk to him because i’m reaalllyy shy :(
But I want him to ask me out
How do i do that?
Hey I’m having the same problem…were
My friend introduced me 2 this guy. Well I hot his cell number and
We started toting each other..and now I think that
I like him…and I don’t know what to do:(…
I like this guy in my health class we are bestfriends and high five buddies and I like him alot we smile at eachother alot to and tell eachother everything so how do I tell him I like him more than a friend and how should I know the sighns that he likes me back
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