girl help: theres a girl at my school who likes me as a freind but I whant - Help.com

Honestly, this is a hard scenario to pull off. I’ve gone through the same thing multiple times, and unfortunately, many times it ends in completely losing the friend. But Don’t lose all hope man. Put out some feelers and take notice….how does she talk to you? Does she seem to drop little hints that maybe she wants to be more than friends? Does she talk to her friends about you? If so, what kind of stuff does she tell them? Don’t let it slide too long, but at the same time, don’t rush into things…but search for some answers.

Well..

There’s two methods you could try both of which may ruin the relationship.

1) Start being an asshole to her, not a lot but just a little, brush her off, make her feel like you don’t need her at all, then she will want to get you back and begin to see the other side of you that she may have been blind to when you were her friend, Especially if you start hanging out with a different girl.

2) Both of you get really drunk one night and hope it turns into making out and go from there. Don’t rush it though.. Just touch her a little bit like maybe let her rest her legs on you, or you rest yours on her when you’re hanging out… Then find a way to get alone and give her a massage or something

Hey Sarahle, if he likes you and you know this for a fact, and you like him, then go for it. Don’t let it slide, go for it. because if you guys are as good of friends as you are now, and deep down you both want more than friendship, then I think nothing can separate you.