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my boyfriend of 2+ years just left me.

he grabbed all his things & left. he doesn`t have a cellphone & no house to live. no job, no family, no nothing. what do i do to find him?

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Goldie offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 years ago (1 minute after post)

I would just forget him. If he just left you.

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alzimmerma offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 years ago (1 minute after post)

Why did he leave?

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DarkAngel offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Dubai, 03, AE | 6 years ago (3 minutes after post)

Umm.. Goldie.. you dont jus forget a 2 year old boyfriend…
look, jus calm down sit down…
and think of the main reason why he did this… then try to get through if you know any of his family, if not… then just ask any of hsi friends if u still havent…. then jus calm down wait for a phone call, if it doesnt happen, then you know what kina guy he is… or maybe an emergency happened… jus wait.. be patient

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but_he offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 years ago (4 minutes after post)

well you did something to f*** things up. nice. he must be pissed at you . what happened. what did you doo. tell aunt sofia

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djableskyle offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
US | 6 years ago (4 hours, 6 minutes after post)

Hey but_he, nice job buddy! shes asking for help and all you can do is reply some sarcastic comment, get bent >

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Help me with: I regretablly left my girlfriend of almost 4 years :( I didn’t know what to do anymore, everything about me I felt
but_he offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 years ago (4 hours, 8 minutes after post)

what did she do… oh thats right, she posted earlier about cheating on him w/his best friend. nice hwo girls come of as the victims

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djableskyle offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
US | 6 years ago (4 hours, 12 minutes after post)

I did not see her earlier post, sry for any confusion of blame :( I’ll try and read previous post next time.

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Help me with: I regretablly left my girlfriend of almost 4 years :( I didn’t know what to do anymore, everything about me I felt
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6 years ago (4 hours, 25 minutes after post)

who cheated on who? i’m sorry, but you got that wrong. that was a whole different anonymous person. besides I didn’t even do anything. he left because he doesn’t believe me when i tell him i love him. i try so hard to please him, but he thinks otherwise.

& i really do need help. I DIDN’T DO ANYTHING ****** UP.

i just want him back home where he’s safe and i don’t have to worry about him.

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but_he offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 years ago (4 hours, 27 minutes after post)

so what happened for him to not believe you.

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sexxijessi2 offline Unverified User #
Winter Springs, FL, US | 5 years, 5 months ago (8 months after post)

my boyfriend of almost 4 years just did that to me.i havent slept in 2 days. i invited my best friend over.we drank some wine and she really helped me get through the night.
being alone in this house worried about him was driving me crazy.

hope everything works out for you.

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DarkAngel offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Dubai, 03, AE | 5 years, 5 months ago (8 months after post)

Being dumped or left is one of the most hurtful things in the world. Ive just went through the same process and you have to be strong and try your best to fight the temptation of craving a messed up relationship… cuz that person will never be who they were when they were deeply in love you with you for those precious moments. Its over and it hurts but to move on with life you need to let go or you will just linger while they move on….

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