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When a guy ignores a girl, is he just nervous or does he not want her to talk to him anymore?

I asked this Guy, we’ll call him Chase, to the Sadie Hawkins Dance. He seemed very enthusiastic about the dance and said he had a lot of fun afterwards. I heard through one of his friends that they were encouraging him to ask me to prom. The rest of the week I was told of it, he was very happy to see me and always greeting me with a hello. He would occasionally glance in my direction and i would catch him staring. This week however, he seems to be going out of his way to avoid me and doesn’t respond when i try to speak to him. Does this mean he isn’t interested in prom?

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Rhys offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
GB | 2 years, 9 months ago (4 minutes after post)

It may mean he is trying a different tactic and seeing if you like him, i advise you make a real effort to show him you like him. Dont try too hard and seem desperate though =)

Much Luck!!

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Maximina offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (4 minutes after post)

His feelings may have changed for you, teenage boys are funny like that. You need to have the guts to address him directly and act confident. Insecurities are not attractive, therefor if you want to date this boy you need to act cofident around him and if he is not interested then so what you are an amazing young lady who can do better.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (9 hours, 7 minutes after post)

just go up 2 him and say “hey did i do something to make u mad at me if so WHAT DID I DO” see what he says and talk about it.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

well i really like this guy but i am not sure if he likes me even know he was looking at my but and keeps calling me!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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