Its easy for me to tell her to “Move on” or “forget about it”.
Although Ive personally did not experience what she went through, I can’t imagine how she must feel. I mean Im a person who can’t stand that feeling of you know, that old embarrassing memory that just shakes you up and your like “WHY DID I DO THAT?ugghhhh!!!” then you repress it again? Well there is someone I know who finally gave her self in, truly believing that this guy loved her. Which leaves her completely vunerable and all out in the open but whether he truly loved her or not, she gave herself up to him and now is feeling miserable. Is there anyone who can relate to this kind of situation? Where they were “attacked” in their weakeast moment or something and now has no clue what to do? Or maybe you know what to do but you just cant help but to think about and torture yourself? I get teary eyed just listening to her story of how she feels empty and souless inside. She still has much feelings for him and I believe he has moved on. All I can say is, “You HAVE to move on” and “You can do it!”. But I don’t think its helpful and I can imagine why. What can I tell her and is there anyone else whose felt this way or can relate? I also tell her, “Its a matter of time” but its not easy for someone whose living this moment… I worry for her and just wish she can get through this. Its not easy, a lot of things arent easy and I feel so bad. Any advice or ideas??? Thanks =)
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Its easy for me to tell her to “Move on” or “forget about it”. Although Ive personally did not experience what she went through, I can’t imagine how she must feel. I mean Im a person who can’t stand that feeling of you know, that old embarrassing memory that just shakes you up and your like “WHY DID I DO THAT?ugghhhh!!!” then you repress it again? Well there is someone I know who finally gave her self in, truly believing that this guy loved her. Which leaves her completely vunerable and all out in the open but whether he truly loved her or not, she gave herself up to him and now is feeling miserable. Is there anyone who can relate to this kind of situation? Where they were “attacked” in there weaking moment or something and now has no clue what to do? Or maybe you know what to do but you just cant help but to think about and torture yourself? I get teary eyed just listening to her story of how she feels empty and souless inside. She still has much feelings for him and I believe he has moved on. All I can say is, “You HAVE to move on” and “You can do it!”. But I don’t think its helpful and I can imagine why. What can I tell her and is there anyone else whose felt this way or can relate? I also tell her, “Its a matter of time” but its not easy for someone whose living this moment… I worry for her and just wish she can get through this. Its not easy, a lot of things arent easy and I feel so bad. Any advice or ideas??? Thanks =)
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