Love help: What do you do when the girl you like and your best friend are going out? - Help.com

I hate to tell you this but there is nothing you can do. The last thing you want is to loss a friend over a girl. Move on. Find someone else.

Find a new woman…… but dont be desperate about it…. find someone choice and keep your sanity in the mean time!

its the same story again maybe dejavu. yer i mean i cared about some girl and we were really close, but she was going out with my best mate, but things got out of hand but lad if u only just fancy her, then theres no point ur going to lose ur mate

This sound difficult but if you ‘courted her 24/7′ and nithing became of it, I do not think she is interested in a relationship with you that is more than friends. You are in a tough place. You should probally move on but…if you wait long enough, your friend will dump her and you may have a chance for a re-bound relationship. That is not avised but possible.

same dejavu here but difference story.my best friend fell in love with my gf although i already tell him to back off.i should have walk away long time ago but i insist to try n carry on since it was my 1st relationship and it still fresh (September last year).and so i did,and because of that i lost both of them.so the moral of the story is…just walk away dude…you gonna thanks yourself later.trust me on this.dont ever make the same mistake as i did okey!!.

If she’s worth it, you can wait for her-keep contact with both of them, this way you always know whats new—–be there for her problems, if you know you’re friend well you’ll know when there is one. Take your friend out some nights, hanging out with a few other woman, the same woman every time you both go out. Maybe he’ll start seeing one in particular, maybe grow a different connection. Its still every early in their relationship–there is still some time if she is worth yours. ;)

And—if he does find someone in that new group, then it would show he’s not attached to her yet and their would be no hard feelings if you got the girl in the end.

———But then again–this could be fate, and if thats the case-there’s someone else for you.