Love help: I love the man I’m with more than anything - oh my God, I really do.

Mutilatedwonderland

I love the man I’m with more than anything - oh my God, I really do.

I’ve sort of had his password to his e-mail for a while now, but I never really cared or used it.
Today, I had a profound feeling and I went through his e-mail. I found a message where he was telling this girl that he wishes he could lay with her and tell her how beautiful she is and things like that. They don’t live in the same state, but he was still cheating with me with some chick online.

I was mortified - and I told him about it. He cried and he said he didn’t know why he did it and all of this stuff.

It really hurts to love him, but I wouldn’t be able to love anyone else …
He’s a little flirtacious and I don’t know what to do … I don’t want that to happen again.
Any words or any thing at all?

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I love the man I’m with more than anything - oh my God, I really do.
I’ve sort of had his password to his e-mail for a while now, but I never really cared or used it.
Today, I had a profound feeling and I went through his e-mail. I found a message where he was telling this girl that he wishes he could lay with her and tell her how beautiful she is and things like that. They don’t live in the same state, but he was still cheating with me with some chick online.

I was mortified - and I told him about it. He cried and he said he didn’t know why he did it and all of this stuff.

It really hurts to love him, but I wouldn’t be able to love anyone else …
He’s a little flirtacious and I don’t know what to do … I don’t want that to happen again.
Any words or any thing at all?

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sal #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

u seem so weard can you explain more?
is he youre boy freind?
and i didnt understand is he cheeting on u?
and how did he accept that you read his messages???
pleaz be more clear…

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angleeyes4 3 #
US | 2 years, 7 months ago (3 hours, 38 minutes after post)

I understand because the same thing but sort of happened to me. And I’m married.They have some wemen that flirt online with your mates because if seen it. I love my husband and I simply told him to how I felt,and he didnt talk to her anymore. I also had a chat with her and she was very nasty to me.It was not a love thing because she was married to and lived in another state. But I stoped it. It’s okay to chat win your playing games online but dont take it any further than that.Men don’t think thats cheeting but it is to us.If he really cares for you it want happen again. Give him a chance to fix it and see how things work out.You send him a flirty e-mail he will like it trust me. Hope things work out for you good luck!!!!!!!!!

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candp 38 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (12 hours, 11 minutes after post)

If you want to stick it out with this guy, just get ready for the ride! It will consist of some highs and a whole bunch of lows. Throw in a lot of pain, indecision, doubt and loneliness for good measure. Have fun!

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Anonymous #
2 years, 2 months ago (5 months after post)

I understand how u feel. If u 2 r really in love, u shouldnt let this affect u.

Benji 4 #
US | 2 years, 2 months ago (5 months, 1 week after post)

I’ve seen this twice before. In both cases, it brought to light that something was wrong or lacking in the relationship, but once the fling was brought to light, it was fixed. Talk it over with him. The fact that he didn’t shrug it off when you showed him means he’s still very much in love with you. Talk it out, fight it out, but get it out. Once it’s out you will be closer and more in love than before.

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Mutilatedwonderland 2 #
Pittsburgh, PA, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (5 months, 1 week after post)

He cheated on me four times…

That I know of.
Getting the scoop - he cheated on ALL of his girlfriends. Thanks for trying to help, but this was posted five months ago. I can’t figure out how to close the post down. xD

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Benji 4 #
US | 2 years, 2 months ago (5 months, 1 week after post)

Aww just trying to return the help.

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Mutilatedwonderland 2 #
Pittsburgh, PA, US | 2 years, 2 months ago (5 months, 1 week after post)

Nah; no problem. :]

Good luck with every thing. :D

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