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I have so many thoughts in my head and I’d like to clear my mind.

Eh, I’m at loss, I completely don’t know what to do. The end of the school year is coming very fast and till the end of May, I have to pick a high school for the next 3 years of studying. There are a lot of good high schools here, where I live, but the problem is, I already know, what I want to do with my life. However I can’t make that dream come true, cause I live in the Eastern Europe and it’s impossible for a person like me to achieve that goal. Not because of the stereotypes. It’s like that: either I’ll end up back here or dead somewhere in a dark alley.

So that’s it. That’s my little story. I have no friends, so I’m sharing this with you. (And please, don’t feel sorry for me. I know most of you won’t, but I’m feeling sorry for myself and that’s enough for me.) Thanks for reading this.

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MaliaJade offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Oklahoma City, OK, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (2 minutes after post)

what’s the situation? Why would you end up dead in an alley? Is it that rough? Just wonderiong. Hope you don’t mind. :)

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animal offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
Norfolk, VA, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Meditation helps clear the mind. Often when too many things are on the mind, its difficult sort through them. Clear your mind by meditating, that will help you regain the focus you desire.

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wajok offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
GB | 2 years, 7 months ago (24 minutes after post)

There are people who put their dreams in a little box and say, “Yes,
I’ve got dreams, of course I’ve got dreams.” Then they put the box
away and bring it out once in a while to look in it, and yep,
they’re still there. These are great dreams, but they never even
get out of the box. It takes an uncommon amount of guts to
put your dreams on the line, to hold them up and say, “How
good or how bad am I?” That’s where courage comes in.
wish id thought tht up i dont know what u want to do with ur life or how it would be dangerous would be a bit handy if we did but hey everyone keeps stuff inside hell i do most of the time tht quote is a description of alot of plp incuding me so dont be like that if u know what u want to do take it as very few people ever know what they want and if u need to move find pastures green
what ever try to but keep urself safe if u can

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wajok offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
GB | 2 years, 7 months ago (28 minutes after post)

god sake dont get urself killed i know what its liek out in eastern europe sometimes

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addymaddy.padd offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Eatontown, NJ, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (43 minutes after post)

what job are you striding for?

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munkiluv offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 2 years, 7 months ago (48 minutes after post)

hi, omg i totally understand what u mean, but i always identify my songs lol, if its bugging u that much then just try and remember and go back to where you herd it from or just try and forget it! xx mwah xx p.s. dont stress

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yoda1 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
Augustów, 61, PL | 2 years, 7 months ago (50 minutes after post)

All I do is believe and pray, coz that’s all I can do. First step would be going out of my country and leaving everything behind, but I don’t have courage or money to leave. Go to an unknown place, alone, by myself. I don’t even feel safe here, how can I? Few days ago, 50 metres away from my house a man was nearly beaten up to death. I guess I’ll just keep it in a box - at least I’ll now it’s still there.

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munkiluv offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 2 years, 7 months ago (57 minutes after post)

ok who have i replied this to? lol sorry to bother you

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Beccasaurous offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Harrow, M1, GB | 2 years, 6 months ago (2 weeks after post)

Do you live in a communist country like Russia? I hope things do look up for you. But how come you’ll end up dead in a dark alley?

I’m very confused sorry >_

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amanda_koe offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Downers Grove, IL, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (2 weeks after post)

fear is a terrible thing that holds back in so many ways. I you are not safe were you are then you should go were you are safe and make your dreams happen. it is up to you to fight for what you want nobody can do it for you .. sometimes we have to use our fear to drive us to were we want to be. I don;t understand whay you would end up dead in an alley. Please keep your dreams and fight for what you want.

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Ripe, E2, GB | 2 years, 6 months ago (2 weeks, 1 day after post)

hope you dont end up that way, but in the mean time if you can download some nice music to ease you, download ENIGMA, it eases my mind and its very ambient, all the bast.

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ortiz_fredd offline Unverified User #
US | 2 years, 6 months ago (2 weeks, 4 days after post)

my
computer turns off and on? CANGET o9n the web sti8lln?

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