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Will it ever be me?

Will it ever be my turn for someone to love me? I know i shouldnt moan, i’d love to believe that someday that right person will come along and everything will just click into place. I hate it that I’m jealous of my friends, but it’s hard when i know this list pf people that like them, but I’ve never known anyone to have liked me. I feel like I deserve someone! i’m not hideous, and I’m not stunning, and I dont want someone perfect! how do I get that!! someone to talk to, to hold me, to kiss!!

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ginseng offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (4 minutes after post)

I know how you feel..i used to feel the same way. What age are you? I honestly think that you only find somebody to love when you stop looking

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Sherfield English, P8, GB | 2 years, 7 months ago (7 minutes after post)

I’m 17 atm. lol young i guess! i dno, i’ve had one guy ever, but eurghh believe me that was one BIG screw up!!

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (10 minutes after post)

I think we’ve all felt that way before. Have faith that God will bring the right person into your life at the right time. He has prepared a table for you in the wilderness. You have a destiny, and nothing can seperate you from that. You may not know what it is yet, but it is there working inside you and around you, always miving you toward your fulfillment. Faith in this will release the power of it.

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ginseng offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Aw man..17 is very very young..would you really want to find the perfect guy at this age?! I think not..just go out with your friends, have some fun..before you know it you’l be beating guys off with a stick..things happen like that sometimes..it’s like waiting for a bus :D

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Sherfield English, P8, GB | 2 years, 7 months ago (14 minutes after post)

lol!! i like that! i guess love is as unreliable as the bus huh! so you’re at uni? have you found anyone there? i hear its probably the best time you can spend. new starts and stuff

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Sherfield English, P8, GB | 2 years, 7 months ago (15 minutes after post)

thanks the fronde, though sometimes i wish i could have a peek at what’s on the menu, to know theres something to look forward to! but thats just my hapless dreaming!

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (24 minutes after post)

:) Yeah I think Uni is a really great time in your life for lots of reasons. For me, it was my first opportunity for total independence, a total fresh start..not that there was anything wrong with my old life but it’s nice to feel like you’re starting again, everything is new and you learn so much about yourself. With regard to boys, yeah!! It’s so great because uni attracts all kinds of people, you’re bound to find somebody who has something in common with you! I think school tends to breed slight variations of the same people..college is very exciting in that you meet so many different kinds of people..the future is bright for you waywaiwaywa! :)

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Sherfield English, P8, GB | 2 years, 7 months ago (28 minutes after post)

thank you so much ginseng! i guess what’s left for me is to knuckle down hard and get into that art uni that i’ve hoped for since.. forever! it’s always nice to come onto here, even though i promise myself not to come on becasue ive got another problem! but its nice to knwo that ppl care, and maybe you’re helping someone- like you have helped me! ^__^ thank you!

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (37 minutes after post)

oh wow! Art college?!! My god..it will be fun of the most gorgeous bohemian beauties!! Good choice! The perfect place to go for boys!! :) oh and an education of course! Guys love a girl who’s into art or music too! :D Best of luck! x

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

I’m listening to Tom Petti and the Heartbreakers right now. I think this song fits you.

The waiting is the hardest part
everyday get one more yard
you take it on faith, you take it to the heart
the waiting is the hardest part.

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ginseng offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 37 minutes after post)

love that song man! :D

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San Jose, CA, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (5 days, 8 hours after post)

I just wanted to say that I LOVE what the original post says… Its the clearest expression of something so universal..

from The Smiths, How soon is now
“I am human and i need to be loved
just like everybody else does.”

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (2 years after post)

I read that first post and it was like a transcription of my mind! So I agree with the post completely but find it interesting how self absorb the “universal” feeling of love is. Take the opening line: “Will it ever be my turn for someone to love me?” a yearning for someone, anyone, else’s love, with no mentioned desire to love someone else. Love will come, as Ginseng said, “when you stop looking”, as you will accidentally fall in love with someONE, not the comodified concept of love, but an acutal person who will hopefully love you back. You’ve got to give inorder to recieve!

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San Jose, CA, US | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (2 years after post)

This post still rings so true in the sweetness and sincerity of it.

Even two years after its post.

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