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I am annoyed with the same friend who told me she liked this guy better than me.

(Victoria) Let me tell you about this guy. We’ve all known eachother for 5 years going on 6. She used to “love” him. I don’t really know how she feels about him anymore because she doesn’t talk to me anymore.

Well me and my two other best friends Marjie and Kimmy are waiting for her to come over right now because we were going to go to the movies together then call our OTHER best friend Alicia who is at the hospital with her twin sister who is on the verge of death. But Victoria went to the boys house and took forever there doing god know’s what. She finally calls me saying she’s at home and doesn’t have a ride. So my friends really want her to still come over so Marjie just left to go get her.

Tell me your opinion on all of this.

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JoJo offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (4 hours, 30 minutes after post)

It sounds like your friend is being pretty disrespectful to all of her girl friends because of this guy she likes. That is unfortunately pretty common with girls. You might want to talk to her and tell her in the nicest way possible that you care about her and your friendship but you feel like she is putting this guy before you and your other friends.

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Devon_Wra offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
CA | 2 years, 7 months ago (9 hours, 40 minutes after post)

Well theres a saying Bros before Hoes, it works for guys, but it also works for girls. I hate people who ditch their friends for their love interest.
At the very least she should still do some things with just you and her friends.

Maybe you should suggest that he come along when you guys do things. I love when my gf brought me along with her friends.

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Infidel Jester offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Santa Monica, CA, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (20 hours, 20 minutes after post)

My opinion is that Victoria is kinda treating you all like crap. Let her know what she’s doing hurts the rest of you, and listen to Devon.

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