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i dont think i am meant 4 anything special in this world.

i have no talents and am struggling at college. my grandad died recently so i am seriously questioning my faith. My boyfriend an i are having problems, HELP!!!

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feistyligh offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (18 minutes after post)

You are worth something, just by the fact that you are here. You are a child of God and He does not make mistakes.

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Infidel Jester offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Santa Monica, CA, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (30 minutes after post)

Just being in this world is something special. Examine your faith rationally and decide if it is justified. Then, no matter which way you decide, go out and do your best to help others - the best use of one’s life is bettering the lives of others.

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david21 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

Yep. You are created by God and loved by him. Those things are circumstances that are a part of life. You can use those circumstances to help others some day. Hang on to your faith. And you do have talents and gifts, don’t worry. You may just not see them yet, but you will.

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adrianna offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

Birth is God telling us we matter.

Things get tough, understandably, but never think you aren’t good enough to be here. I know your grandfathers death must have been hard. I am here if you want to talk,

Adria

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tay tay offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Lancaster, PA, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 49 minutes after post)

im not religious, at all. i havent been to church in 5 years (my rents stoped making me). And i still know god cares, and everything does happen for a reason. You are here for somthing, and just think about the people who you have help, or made a difference in there lives. There is somone, and without your they would be worse off.

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tomboi2007 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (8 hours, 19 minutes after post)

don’t worry i suck at almost everything i do, hell i’d probably be the crappiest everything person.

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adrianna offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (8 hours, 34 minutes after post)

That was beautiful Heather. The prettier side of surviving.

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everythingisconnecte offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (1 day after post)

A loit about life in mundane and day to day, but then life throws us trials to show us how strong we can be and that God will carry us through. When we are faced with fire we do not come aout burned but refined and more beautiful. so hold your head high. even if you never achieve greatness or make overwhelming amounts of money, just love and be loved and that is the greatest of all

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jjustmelucky offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
US | 2 years, 7 months ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

Honey, you are just going thru a trial( god does this to see how strong you are and if you are going to trust and believe in him for strength.) was your grandfather a christian? the bible say’s ‘absent from the body, present with the lord!!!

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tiger ruff offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Delamere, C5, GB | 2 years, 7 months ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

AM going on 4o and still suck u get over it find happiness in the little things

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bmcatha offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Dubai, 03, AE | 2 years, 7 months ago (3 days, 13 hours after post)

Everyone of us is different in our own way,believe it or not you are so special and there is some good in you,you just have to learn how to love yourself and love life,try to talk to someone how you really feel,i think if you dont have any close friend,try a caring stranger,i find it easier to open up that way.

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fanficbug offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
North Little Rock, AR, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (4 days after post)

I just have one thing to say: Talents don’t matter; hard work does. Anyone who thinks otherwise probably hasn’t lived much. :D Just do the best you can working at something you love and it’ll come to you. Good luck!

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