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So i have this friend who i would like to be something more.

He is busy all the time but i know he likes me. Sometimes he will act like he is interested in me and other times he won’t. he is sending mixed signals and I have no idea what to make of it. I understand he is busy with classes. I think he is afraid of getting involved with me and then having no time for me. How to I explain to him I’m more frustrated by the mixed signals than I would be by the lack of time?

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

This is your standard answer, but honestly just tell him. How else is he going to know. If you can’t tell him, why not send him a note or card & share what you feel.

He may be interested, but like you said, he may feel he won’t be able to commit to a relationship & give it his full attention due to classes. Sometimes in life, we have to make choices like that & it might be one of his reasons.

Take care.

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