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There’s this girl that I really like, and she has a boy friend whom I am friends with.

Pluse I am really bad with women, I can’t really talk strait around her, I don’t really know what to do.

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lalal offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

who do you care for more, your friend or the girl?
if you want to still be friends with him bu you wanna start being with the girl and if you thing you are bad with women you can screw up with both of them

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 192 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Friends over relationships, every time.

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Help me with: Oh your God, this is brilliant.
robkelle offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Ephrata, PA, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 day after post)

remain friends/wait

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Help me with: WITHOUT SOUNDing desperate what is it about me that women do not like i will admit that i am phyically challenged and not
arcticmusic445 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
US | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

yeah wat robkelle said wait
if they break up wait a little while but not too long and tell her how you feel
but if they don’t break up don’t worry, there are plenty of other women out there and plus now you have a great friend

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Help me with: I’ve never been able to really “talk” about this with anyone because its hard to be serious and i dont
Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 192 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 day, 9 hours after post)

I don’t know for certain about your friend, but most guys don’t like thier friends dating thier exs. I say she’s off-limits. Find annother girl, there are others.

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Help me with: Oh your God, this is brilliant.
frank5224 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

I agree; if she’s his boyfriend, I wouldn’t “mess up” the friendship with the guy. Women come and go; friends are golden. Hang on to your friend, man; they are true treasures in life. I think, if she knows whom you are at all, she’d have great disdain for you and you’d lose your friendship with your friend (the guy); all three would “lose” then.

Take care. Be wise. Take it from a little older guy like me; I know about that “stuff,” first-hand from the past.

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