Love help: i love my boyfriend dearly but i dont know if i want to be with him anymore. - Help.com

You should get away from him yea you might hurt his feeling but if you are not feeling him anymore you should more on. Things can get worst the longer you wait to do it..

While it may seem hard to walk away from something that has lasted for two long years, you have to consider if it’s the best thing for you. The point of a relationship is to be happy, and if you are not, then I don’t see any reason to stay.

OK well step back from the situation. and do some inner meditation. Remember all the good things you had and all the bad things as well. Work it out out if its worth it and leave him if its not. One thing if you decide to leave him CUT ALL TIES. i know i may be hard but its the best in the long run.

you love him but you feel like you need a little more to your relationship it’s like all the bad in your relationship is over powering the good. I think you should need sometime to think don’t break up with him but take 2 days by yourself to relax and think about why you dated him in the first place all his good sides and not the bad and think about what you can do to work this out and then go back to him and kiss him and see if you still feel the same and if you do then stay and ask him to go somewhere fun instead of his house or yours go dancing or rollarskating and stuff and have a good time. If you don’t feel anything between that kiss then tell him nicly you don’t no where your feelings went but you have none for him and your sorry but it’s going to have to end and so your not so sad call up a friend a old buddy and hang with them until your in a relationship again. But, in the mean time. THINK enjoy and don’t worry.

if he has corrected his mistakes then it’s tme to sit down and talk to him. women have emotional ups and downs that we ourselves should be aware about. ur feeling now might have been the result of the past incidents like ur arguments with your guy. it takes a while for us to revive from emtpiness to happiness.ur guy also should understand the cycle that u are undergoing. it is a very normal cylce for women.talk to him so hed understand. assure him that this has nothing to do with him. bec if he would take it wrongly then another argument would rise.

Actions speak the loudest, if he has physically hurt you, he doesn’t love you. If he’s abusive, you have no reason to continue to bear his presence. People make mistakes, sure, but some mistakes cross a line.

move on it will hurt for a time but you are worthy to be with someoneYou genuinely love AND who loves you rob:-)

i agree. LEAVE.
Take some time to get to know yourself apart from a relationship. Allow yourself to grieve and to heal. Love yourself and wish him all the best. Life is too short and too precious to waste in unhappiness, fear or secret despair.

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