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Ahhh i really need help does any1 have a bit of advice…

..im in a major pickle at the moment. The problem is how can i tell my house mate that i don’t fancy him.

Im a student living with group of friends(5 in total) from collage. This group is a mixture of guys and girls with no relationships between any house members. We all get on very well, we live together, spend most of our days in collage together and go out together!!

One of the guys was always quiet and by this i mean he doesn’t like nightclubs, drinking or just been up late in general. Over a few week end when we both had to stayed in the house we got to know each other. I didn’t know him thatwell before then. Friends at collage noticed how well we were getting on and even privatly questioned if we fancied each other. These questions were constantly denied on both our parts with always the same response that we are just really good friends.

We do get on really well together, we understand each other, he is like the sensible side of me focusing my mind to collage and things i should be doing. But now he has started going out to clubs and last night he got fluttered drunk. The problem i have is that i don’t fancy him. He is really a lovely guy but im not attracted to him at all. If im been really honest he reminds me of my da. He has a girlfriend who is really jelous of me and really i can’t blame her! We have an added problem in that we both are going to collage abroad next year. What should i do, im so confused, i really don’t want to lose our friendship!

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Mï†z¥-superMODel 3 #
Tullahoma, TN, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Does he want to take the friendship further?

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Does he want to take the friendship further?

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Dublin, 07, IE | 2 years, 7 months ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

oK I really don’t know how to use dis web site hope im commeting in the right place. Another of the lads(Ryan) told me to stay away from the guy last nite. Ryan knows ive no interest and told me what the others in the house were saying. The thing is last night was the guys first ever night been drunk! Anytime he seen me at the bar he kept trying to buy me a double or a triple. He wants more from the relationship. He is trying at my side all the time. . .if i sneezed he would nearly hand me a tissue. But that im starting to rely on him. Ive told him straight out that i value the friendship but still he is kind of pushing for more.

oK I really don't know how to use dis web site hope im commeting in the right place. Another of the lads(Ryan) told me to stay away from the guy last nite. Ryan knows ive no interest and told me what the others in the house were saying. The thing is last night was the guys first ever night been drunk! Anytime he seen me at the bar he kept trying to buy me a double or a triple. He wants more from the relationship. He is trying at my side all the time. . .if i sneezed he would nearly hand me a tissue. But that im starting to rely on him. Ive told him straight out that i value the friendship but still he is kind of pushing for more.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (9 hours, 11 minutes after post)

Tell him you’re not looking for a relationship if he asks. Until then, enjoy the free drinks he buys you.

Tell him you're not looking for a relationship if he asks. Until then, enjoy the free drinks he buys you.

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GB | 2 years, 5 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

i ave the same problem. just keep tellin him. he just needs space 2 get ova u

i ave the same problem. just keep tellin him. he just needs space 2 get ova u

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