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alright…

I need some help… I’ve got this free day thing from school, and I was planning on going to my girlfriend’s house. She also has a free day… BUT there won’t be parents home, so I told mi madre that there would be. I’ve gone over to her house 4 times now using my parents car. They gave me permission every time… but now they want to talk to her parents… Here are the things I have on my side.
1. I’m one of the best behaved kids in my entire school.
2. I have leverage over my mom because I watch the kids so she can go to poker…I was thinking of bribing her with that.
3. My mom stopped smoking for me two years ago…but she started up 3 months ago… I was thinking I could make a big scene about it and maybe she’d let me…
I know I sound like I’m a conniving little vrat…lol but seriously… This is like one of the first wrong things I’ve ever done… I’m going over there… I just need some suggestions on how to won over my mom to trust me enough not to call her parents… help…

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odyssey28 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Dude, its not bad if she talks just go with her you are a man, live it be it

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Andy72774 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
North Little Rock, AR, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (5 minutes after post)

what are you tlaking about?
lol this is about me wanting to go over to my girls house and my mom won’t let me… she kind of has to…she has the only car….

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CORONILLA_328 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (39 minutes after post)

well, just let her you need your space with your girlfriend and that she just need to trust you because you are a big boy now. Tell her you love her and that you will not anything that will mess up your life.

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Salena offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (2 hours, 28 minutes after post)

It only takes one time to destroy the trust. You done it three times already. As a mother Once she finds out that trust will be gone. You made the choice to do something that was not allowed by your parents and your girlfriends parents. For your mother to want to speak to them she is already on to your deception.

Unless you come clean and except the consequences they and your parents will not trust you.

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Andy72774 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
North Little Rock, AR, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (23 hours, 35 minutes after post)

lol no no no, you don’t understand. My mother has betrayed my trust more than a few times. I care not whether she trusts me… all I care about is seeing the one thing on this planet that makes me happy…

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