Love help: well my name is christopher lezama i am 17 years of age i am a Jr.

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well my name is christopher lezama i am 17 years of age i am a Jr.

in high school i have been with my girlfriend for a year and three months her name is janine medina im having trouble with my realationship we just broke up two days ago its hard for me we broke up becaouse she has been my longest realationship i really love her well this is my story i meet her on her freshmen year and we got togethere she cheated on me 2 times with her ex boyfreind i forgave her and we got back togethere on the 27 of janurary of last year we had problems but we allways got threw them togethere but now i just think she doents love me we dont go to the same school anymore becaouse things happend and i had to leave her parents dont like me i love her so much she thinks im insecure beacaous i ask her 21 questions i wnt to know if it is right that when ur with someone and you say you loved them if its okay to go out with onother guy to the movies a guy that u say hes ur freind but you guys have kissed before i think that that is wrong but im not sure i really wnt to make this work but she said that we cant be togethere after i prove to her and her parents that i really want to be with her but this is what i think i think that if you love someone that u wouldnt care what people say and think about you i think that if she really loved me that she would of staid with me she thinks i dnt trust her i dnt knw if i do or if i dont this is hard and i dnt knw what to do anymore i want to keep her beacaous i really love her i have never cheated on her i have never hit her i have never cuzed at her i have never disrespected her and or her parents i need help beacaouse i dnt know what to do she broke up with me beacaous im sopposeably so insucure i think its just and excuse to not be with me but im not sure she want to go out to the movies on friday with someguy named luis that is the guy she kissed before and she went out with him while she was with me she wnt to go out with him to the movies on friday im not sure if that is wrong can you help me fix my realation ship please

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Jeff 8 #
Gamla Stan, 26, SE | 1 year, 5 months ago (9 minutes after post)

I stopped at “I’m really heart broken over the girl that cheated on me twice then broke up with me” about 3 sentences in.

Box up the good times and move on from her. I have no doubt you have very strong feelings for her, but at 17 you’ve got a lot of living left to do and you WILL feel great like this again for someone who doesn’t disrespect you.

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annanbanna72 21 #
San Antonio, TX, US | 1 year, 5 months ago (10 minutes after post)

If you done everything you could possibly do then just move on dont be wasting your time on a girl who broke up with you i learned the hard way i was sprung on this guy but slowly did i realized that me and him worked our hardest to get with each other and we did but he broke my heart but i was trying my hardest to get back with him and him not doing anything i realized that i didnt want to go thru the same pain i did before with him maybe youll should just cool it and be friends for awhile then you might want to ask her out again and see what she says … =) good luck with your relationship with you and your ex-girlfriend….

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Margarita 1 #
Santa Clara, CA, US | 1 year, 5 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Dear Christopher,

You are a good man: respectful of her parents and her, loving (to have extended grace to her despite her infidelity) and thoughtful (for seeking advice).

My dear, you are correct, a person who loves one will be faithful and sacrificial. Sometimes when we are teenagers, we don’t know how to love others (you obviously are one of the few who does).

Sometimes people we date don’t really “see us” that is, they don’t realize what a “treasure” we are. We all have insecurities, but those who love us (really love us and accept us) want to help not add fuel to those insecurities (like it seems she has done).

You’re about to graduate high school and enter the world of adulthood. I would like to propose this book to you (amazon carries it). Finding the Right Woman for You: One Woman’s Advice to Men (Hammond, Michelle Mckinney)

Finding the Right Woman for You: One Woman’s Advice to Men” by Michelle McKinney Hammond. You can get it “used” for a couple of dollars.”

Lastly, what does your mum say about this? Remember that on’es parents know one best/longest and they themselves have suffered and are wise…

Sincerely,
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mdm_emai 3 #
Kirkland, WA, US | 1 year, 5 months ago (18 minutes after post)

After going through what i have gone through, you are young please move on with your life dont keep going back to someone that cheats its not worth it.. make something of yourself. Sooner or later you will find the right persone for you who wont cheat and will love you for you and only you…please take my advice and just move on i know its hard. you are worth the right girl.

yours,
Mdm

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Lehigh Acres, FL, US | 1 year, 5 months ago (41 minutes after post)

man, i dont want to seem mean but i got lost halfway in…. dont worry about her and start over. find someone who wont cheat on you with an ex or your friends. happy hunting! seriously, i hope you find someone who will love you and treat you well.

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