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i been out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years

weve just got a flat togeather now he says i keep staring at his mates the kicking me out the flat well the thing is i dont stare at his mate well theres nowt to stare at there ugly and i love my boyfriend nut he dont beleive me so i was going to move away to get away from it all but having 2nd thoughts please help

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bunny11 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Saint Paul, MN, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Trust is very important in a relationship. Maybe he has different reasons behind his accusations, does he stare at your female friends? It’s hard to think about but if he does then he is more conscious of what you’re doing. You might not even know what you’re doing. I think you should really talk to him about it, tell him that you don’t and that he needs to trust that if he wants to stay with you.

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MSBRIA_0 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (19 minutes after post)

personally sound like he might be staring at someone else…thats why he is getting on the way he is………maybe you should question him!!!!!

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cocodarabbit offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Taxal, N2, GB | 2 years, 7 months ago (4 hours, 44 minutes after post)

tell him straight… if he doesent trust you then he musnt love you as much as you think

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boogerbutt109 offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Hammond, LA, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (7 hours, 20 minutes after post)

Hey, bunny11 I was thinking the same thing you were thinking. I would see if he is staring at any of your friends.

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vodka_kisse offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (7 hours, 31 minutes after post)

maybe he is just feeling insecure as things are moving quiikly and he is a little scared or even intimidated that you are coping with the changes easier than he is! a previous boyfriend and i had this problem, it stemed from bad relationships he had in the past in which he was cheated on! it took a long time but we did build a trust relationship together he was just scared of loosing me like he had before! his paranoya wasnt they reason we split i would just like to add!!

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