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i feel really fat and ugly.

my friends think im abnormal. so do i. im far too tall and im much fatter than any1 else that 1 no.
I also have a large series a spots accross my face and on my back.
My skin is extremly greasy and spotty.
i cnt stand looking @ myself in the mirror and im realy stressed because my school exams re coming up and i no that i will fail them and my mum will be so ashamed of me.
Can you help?

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monkeyluver offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Hi My name is Allison. I think I can help here. I am very tall too. Huge, if I may say myself. I was 230 lbs. at 11. Sont be like me. I care what people say about and to me. I became anorecick.It took me three years to get over myself. Trust me I bet you are in your weight range. Dont worry about it.

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xox_emzie_xox_luvs_j offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (15 minutes after post)

thanks allison.

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monkeyluver offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (21 minutes after post)

anytime really. So are we friends?

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scoobiedo1208 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Maryville, TN, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (42 minutes after post)

I’m really tall to, a little over 6 foot and wear a size 20, just hang in there. Things will get better you just need to feel good with yourself and don’t let the things that people say get to you. Don’t let your height or weight get to you during your school work either. You will do fine on your exams as long as you set your mind to it and make sure you think positive. If you don’t do so great, so what you can do better next time.

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lilmomma_nick offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Chicago, IL, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (50 minutes after post)

We are depress once a while like me im not pefect i have long hair but its nappy and wild and its hard to do so you thinking that your fat and ugly is wrong for your selfestem and you should believe that you are beautiful in anyway possible so believe that you are ugly because if you beleive everyone is will to.So do me and yourself a favorite and believe that you are pretty and if you think your fat do more excuise your probblay not even fat but believ so plez take my advice and help yourself you probbaly will feel alot better

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (2 hours, 39 minutes after post)

I wouldn’t let it get you down, but there’s no reason to suffer for the rest of your life. Get exercising: bike or run instead of taking a car or bus. Lift weights. See a dermatologist (there can be quite a wait list so start now… my wife had to see one when her hormones changed radically and her skin was in really terrible shape… think moonscape… and it really helped).

It’s not so much the weight that gets you down, it’s the whole feeling helpless bit I imagine. Taking action every day to address these things will give you the confidence you need.

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pinkpengers offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
GB | 2 years, 6 months ago (3 hours, 41 minutes after post)

where do u live? if its in the uk and at school/college u can get some cream or tablets for your spots for free. or what about going to the chemist, with ure pocket money? greasy skin, try using a cleaser an toner or again another cream,
as for the part about beening abnormal, everyone comes in different shapes an sizes, u’ve just got to learn to like what u see

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flutterbyeto offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Winter Park, FL, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

you are soo beautiful!

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2 years, 6 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

talk to your doctor

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douglasj272 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Washington, DC, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

I am black, 66 years old and mixed grey hair, married to a woman 20 years younger than me. I am having a ball in life….I am now just now getting started.
I am healthy, active, no aches in my body….what is my point? It doesn’t matter whether you are skinny, tall, fat….You deal with what you have and improve on it

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jerr offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 year, 6 months after post)

hi emzie, i know how you feel but remember… im never gonna let you down.. never gonna give you up, never gonna run around and desert you ;D

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