Hi, I am a 16 year-old girl with a broken heart.
My boyfriend and I were together 2 years and 3 months, he broke-up. He said his feeling had changed, he didn’t feel the same way about me as he did before. I am so sad. He was the first guy I really loved, I had my first sexual experiences with him, and now it,s so hard for me to let go. I heard he is now after some other girl. But to top it off, we go to the same school, so I see him everyday. I’ve called a help line and I have went to see for some help at my school, but nothing seems to work. I just feel like giving up on everything. I sometimes wish he would come back to me and say he made a big mistake, and then we could be together again. I don’t evem feel like leaving anyone else a chance. many guys have came up to me, but I don’t picture myself with anyone else. It feels as if the one person who could make me happy at the present moment is gone. It’s been 2 months, and I am so sick of it. I know that if this happened, it’s for a reason and I have to learn something from it. Life has a plan for me and this is just a part in it. But still, it very hard. I just really needed to share this with someone, and I feel like this is the best place. Thank you for being there, I feel as if I’m not alone :)
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I know this may seem harsh but you need to get over him. I know easier said than done huh? I just think that it is so unfair that he is making you feel this way while he is off chasing other girls. Dont let him see that you are botherd by this go out and make new freinds. Im not saying date anyone but its not going to hurt to keep your options open. Take it from a guy, I promise you if he sees you out with other guys (even just as freinds) he’ll get jealous, even if he wont admit it. Sorry if this seems mean, i just hate when people have a brokenheart.
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Yes ! I have realized lol. I have been hangning around with many new guys. They interrested me in the beginning, so I went up to them. But the more I spend time with them the more I realize that I don’t want to be with anyone new :( But I have been starting to realize he was jealous. I reacently went to a dance. I used to ask my ex-boyfriend to go with me all the time, and he was always to tired or he didn’t feel like it. But this time, he knew I was going, and he showed up with 2 girls. He never used to go before !!! The girl he’s been running after is the sister of one of the guys I’ve been hangning around with. I feel as if he’s doing it all on purpose. The moment I start forgetting about him, I see him looking at me… I just want him to stop ! I need to move on, but it’s hard with the way he’s been acting.
well i know some kids in my school who can’t even get sex from nobody so just be lucky you aren’t a virgin ok do you love this guy is this the guy you wanna spend the rest of your life with if it is it’s probably the sex ok but it wouldn’t be worth it if he’s gonna hurt your feelings just get over it move on with your life since your both jealous maybe he wants to get back with you if he’s doing it on purpose you can’t let one guy do this to you cause i know people in worse situations than you and yours isn’t even half as bad
Well i belive he is being a typical high school guy. I sound that like im some old guy, high school was only 3 years ago for me. in any case i grew up and he will too, u both will. he may not be doing anything on purpose, the problem i have encounted most with girls is that they over analyze everything. no offense of course. all im saying is dont let him get to you. be strong on the outside itll help to be stong on the inside.
“The star are projectors, projecting our lives down to this planet earth”
-Modest Mouse (just a little song that helps me with hard times.)
It acutaly gose the same for guys, I dont think il ever truly get over my first girlfriend and its ok cause i can still move on and have a happy life
Bianka,
you seem like an attractive, smart, caring girl. just have faith and beleive that things happen for a reason and maybe its just time to let go. i just broke up with my boyfriend and i know its hard but its also a new start. you just have to let go and have faith that a young man is out there waiting for you and you just have to be patient. their are billions of people on this earth and i’m positive that there must one charming young man out there thats just made for you. :)
Hey ! It’s Been 5 months now that Me and that guy have broken up. I’ve moved on. i’m now with someone and it’s getting pretty serious. I don’t feel anything for my exboyfriend anymore. I’ve lived many things in these past months but I’ve made it and a little part of the healing is because of you guys here ! I just wanted to thank you all for being there when it got hard. Thanks ! :)
binaka your really pretty girl. do you hav msn/email adress
hello
i really like this guy and he tells me he likes me o but than he changes his mind n i always go back to him. i tried going with other guys but dont feel te same way i feel for this guy
help
do yu have msn/email to talk bout it more
You are not alone! I am fighting the same battle as you. Chin up. :D
read my story maybe u will be happy that ur not in my situation :)
awwwwwwwwww that is so so so soooo sad, to me, he sounds like a total jerk anyway, you, by the look on ur pic, are rele pretty and obviously can do better, so i say go out there, find a guy, who is better than this loser, and make ur ex wish he was dead with regret.
good luck byee x
the problem is after being with some1 for so long uve grown used to having him in ur life. I think u need to become stronger so you can cope being a lone, as ur prob scared and not used to it. The sooner you can do that the better.
I think the best thing to do is have a girl’s nite out just enjoy everyones company the best thnig to do when your upset is talk to some people that really understand you.
It looks like you made it through your first love. Congrats. They’re always messy and never end well. You’ve moved on which is equally good. Just be careful not to fall into the same pitfalls as before. People tend to make the same mistakes over and over. Learn who you are and what you need from a relationship, and why you’re in one in the first place. You’re pretty and a lot of guys will try to lock you into a relationship. So be safe, be careful, and realize that you’ll change more in the next 5 years than you will in the next 20, so good luck with life.
hey girl im a 16 year old girll ad my name is spencie… right now im on acid but it sounds like hell.. i have a 19 year old boyfriend who claims to love me but i swear to you we fight multiple times a day.. i also have a coke habbit that he hates… you seem so cool this guy sounds like he doesnt know what hes missing and ur going to waake up a princess far away with no worries but what you glamorous plans are for the day.. i feel so connected to you.. i always ffel like i have the hhardest and easiest place in the world
my 18 year old big sister is in rehab and im going crazzyy.. i have to remain a busy body to forget shes not here.. realy i feel so alone always.. its sad my personality is so far of anyone and i found nick who loved me for it but its all so hard..and my parents think im a evil person i was a full blown dadys girl untill this year i took 500 dollars out of his checking acount and i riipped his heart out and threw it off a cliff in to sharp icesicles
where is Bianka?
hi bianka,im quain from and i would to be urs …send me ur number and add and we will talk in in private ok
get a breast implant and everythingz fine…
hey can i see another picure of u ure really pretty
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hey i have the same problem but im 13 and i only went out with this guy for 1 or 2 months! i love him but hes 16 and he broke up with me for another girl my best friend but u can still be friends with him and hang out but we all need to get over it and im not tryin to be mean but we all need to move on and live our life! and do some meditations to help get ur mind off him! dont thrash his car or house! but be friendly! and make him jealous and go out with one of his best friends!
hi bianka. can you add me in hotmail plz. you are gorgeous man. i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> thank you.
hey its noor
i think that u have hope so u moved on , that is so good
and my boyfriend is so cute i like him very much and he does too
i know him for a 8 years since i was a child (6)and we still together but i think that he wont let go .lol
hey, don`t be so sad, instead think about and reflex, cause of, ok, your boyfriend left you, but its his fault not yours, and thinking seriously you can`t be happy with him anymore, this is a new part of your life, i know how it feels, when the one you love its gone, i remember that she never loved me, its so hard but you have to get over it, good luck and may the force be with you
ur cute
you will soon realise babe that all men are t w a ts
do ur best to get over him
it may be hard but have nites in with ya girl friends. and soon u will be over him,
OOO and get a rebound babe they do really help !!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxx
dang girl, your sexy
ay look i’ve i like helpin ppl n if u’d like i’d give u advice and if anyone else has problems wit relationships, family o anything if u hav msn add me
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hay janu how are you
we can you freind
Hi bianka im sorry about your bf!! i know how its feel when the person you love brock with you!! but live continue soo leets move on you know!!
Wow. this is almost the same thing im going through rite now! Im a junior in high school and ive been talking to my boyfriend since i was in ninth grade. Hes helped me through alot of problems ive faced in high school. but for a few months now things haven’t been the same and a few days ago he said he could’t do this anymore and he said he wanted to take a break and then he started saying breaking up but i wrote him a heart felt letter and i mite seem him today since i wont see him again and i hope he reads it. but i just wanted you to know your message helped me and i will listen to your advice. Thank you :)
Hey,sorry to here about all this.But what i think is your ex-bf is a genuine ******* for leaving you.i mean look at you,U look like a angel fallen from the heavens above!I possibly cant imagine a guy who would let go of a Real beauty like you.But anyways its best if you get over it.cause some people don’t know something good when they have it.
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