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I have a giant crush on one of the members here.

Should I tell him?

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Old Act. offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Jolla, CA, US | 6 years ago (1 minute after post)

of course! y not?

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linuxya offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 years ago (2 minutes after post)

What are you afraid of?

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spur_cons1 offline Verified User (6 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Nicosia, 04, CY | 6 years ago (4 minutes after post)

Go girl.. :)

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Tobirocus offline Verified User (6 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 years ago (2 hours, 11 minutes after post)

go for it. what have you got to loose?

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pattee offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 6 years ago (3 hours, 34 minutes after post)

Just take it slowly…call her ONCE IN A WHILE. Ask her out for a casual date, talk, laugh and get to know her again. Listen to your advice to me…what have you got to lose?

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walk it out offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Springfield, VA, US | 6 years ago (9 hours, 46 minutes after post)

as in here? at help.com….? that is the stupidest thing i have ever heard of

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Qzzzz offline Verified User (6 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 6 years ago (17 hours, 18 minutes after post)

Sure hope is not Trig…lol..

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pattee offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 6 years ago (17 hours, 23 minutes after post)

Shhhh…I thought that I could at least trust you to keep my deepest secret. lol

I felt really bad after I posted that and everyone was so nice and encouraging.

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Qzzzz offline Verified User (6 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 6 years ago (17 hours, 30 minutes after post)

Well, they have no idea who Trig is..so, your secret is cool…

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sunnielan offline Unverified User #
Pikeville, TN, US | 5 years, 11 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

Really is a cute pic. Pattee..that must be you one the left.
Taking chances are for the brave of heart, - rejection, is sometimes
painful, if the feeling is not mutual..or if there can only be a platonic
relationship..
But, knowing in your heart what can or cannot be is important to bear in mind.
Stay cool.
Addy

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pattee offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 5 years, 11 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

I AM on the left…see I told you I was the cutest…lol

Are you the “Addy” that I should recognize from somewhere else?

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mandie87 offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Avondale, AZ, US | 5 years, 11 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

What part of Phoenix are you from??

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pattee offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 5 years, 11 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

I live in northest Phoenix.. Tatum and Cactus area.

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mandie87 offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Avondale, AZ, US | 5 years, 11 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

Yeah I live in Glendale at Luke!

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pattee offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 5 years, 11 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

I used to go to dances at Luke ( amillion years ago…lol) One dance I went to was called the Flightsuit Dance. The girl’s had to wear the flightsuit of their date…my date was about 5′10″ and I’m 5′1″…it was great.

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