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I called my friend and her mom answered, and started

yelling at me, telling me how my life sucks and I need personal help, and that I can never talk to her daughter again because I am putting her under too much stress telling her about my life. Is there anyway to repair my relationship and become her friend again?

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (11 minutes after post)

get my book….
Will someone please tell me why my life sucks.
google it for info.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (13 minutes after post)

I’ve heard of that happening. The answer is no. That happens because your friend, even if subconsciously, somehow let on to her mom that she can’t deal with the things you tell her, but can’t get you to stop. It might help to figure out whether this was her mom’s wish, and was telling you this against her daughter’s will, or whether it was in fact the daughter’s wish. Even if it’s the mom’s wish and not the daughter’s, you probably can’t win that fight.

This happened to a friend of mine. If you’re worried about being embarassed, don’t be. It should be equally if not more embarassing for her. In my friend’s situation, it took the rest of us, our group of friends, completely by surprise, and made us question the person in your friend’s position rather than our friend.

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tomco1977 offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 2 years, 6 months ago (6 days, 1 hour after post)

dear punki; undoubtably this young women’s mother, must have or forgot to take her daily VVV’s or needs one or two more. I think things may work out for you all, but you have to get to know “mom” a lot better, as this an every day problem in a young relationship. as parents try to protect their own, as it it natural. Question? Is this young lady old enough in your state or is there another reason why her mother is rejecting you? enough said. wish you luck.

carsfh8 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
US | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

Write a letter, and write down your thoughts. Writing will help clear your mind and concentrate on what is really bothering you. Right now they are afraid and do not know how to deal with your problems. Time heals all wounds, and untill you get counseling, and support, watch comedys, read some jokes, have some laughs.
And as for following your friends and cutting, no, do not mutilate yourself,
please go seek professional advice. If you need a friend, send me a note.

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