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hopeless_nat
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why this treatment?

ok, i had a guy friend. we were close and when i talked to him he made me feel better. but i had been told that he and a friend of his were trashing me at lunch ON VALENTINE’S DAY and i really thought we were good friends. i called him to see what the deal was, but ended up leaving him a mean message on his cell phone. he hasn’t talked to me since and i have apologized twice. i recently found out that he didn’t even say anything bad about me, so i feel really badly, but no matter how hard i try i can’t make up for what i did…..HELP!!!!!! what should i do….i see him every day. 

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anar.mirzaye offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 7 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

U know u can just go and talk to him face to face and ask him not to be with ya again just accept ur appologises and only then try to on with ur relations…
U just need to go and speak with him do it and u will see it will work

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hiwassu offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 4 months ago (4 months, 1 week after post)

yeah i think u should just go and talk to him. Say sorry and that u want to be friends again, and if he doesnt want to be friends then there is nothing left that u can feel guilty for. u tried and he didnt want to be friends so there is nothing more then u can do.

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