what should I do?
desperate here!I really like this boy, as I worte before…but we have a history, years ago, 8 to be precise, and it just didn’t work out. But My sister invited him and few other people to a birthday party today…how can I send him some signals that I like him? but discreat ones??? Cuz I don’t want to tell him about my feelings, and I wanted it to happen naturaly…
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When you see him just go and talk to him, ask him how he has been, show yourself happy to see him, and then try to keep contact, asking for his msn email, etc..
Do it directly don’t go around the problem.
It’s your only chance in 8 years, take it the best way you can.
get chatting and remind him of all the good times you had and how you really enjoyed them and possibly suggest you relive them
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desperate here!I really like this boy, as I worte before…but we have a history, years ago, 8 to be precise, and it just didn’t work out. But My sister invited him and few other people to a birthday party today…how can I send him some signals that I like him? but discreat ones??? Cuz I don’t want to tell him about my feelings, and I wanted ti gappen naturaly…
cuz last time i posted about it…everyone adviced me to go and tell him how I felt. But I just can’t do that.
That’s too much, just be very friendly and make sure to keep contact this time. I’m sure he will be happy to see you again too.
If you see each other everyday on MSN for example, you’ll end up talking often and eventually it will grow to seing each other and like that you’ll have him again in your life.
I see him once in while…we are not close friends …but I see him sometimes… but 8 years ago we had ’something’ but it just didnt work out. Now I ended up a 6 year relationship cuz I thought I like him… and I do. But i CAN’T just tell hum that. That’s why I would like him to get that ipression from me…
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desperate here!I really like this boy, as I worte before…but we have a history, years ago, 8 to be precise, and it just didn’t work out. But My sister invited him and few other people to a birthday party today…how can I send him some signals that I like him? but discreat ones??? Cuz I don’t want to tell him about my feelings, and I wanted it to happen naturaly…
Ask him out on a date, not discreat but why wast time.
so who decided not to be a couple
if you broke up with him try to explain why to him and how you feel, if it was him try to find out why
we didn’t actualy date… we were friends…and when day after he admiting that he loved me for so long, we kissed. but I got so scared that I disapered… and when we saw eachother again I was dating…and i dated this other boy for almost 6 years. And my relationship was full of problems, but I was not sure if I liked this boy I am talking about, that’s why I ended it
Life is too short D, I’m thinking that after he told you he loved you & you disappeared & then reappeared with a boyfriend in hand, that this long lost love of yours would be a little bit confused & upset. So have a chat about what was going through your mind at that time & put the ball in his court by telling him where your feelings are right now & how it seems as though you’ve always felt the same about him but was just a little young at heart at the time of his confession. Sounds like he could be your Soul Mate :)
Well the thing is…NOW he is everything I wanted a men, or a bf in my life to be… I have the courage to tell him about my feelings…I think I do have it… but i DON’T know if I have the courage to deal with the answer he is going to give me…..what if it’s is a NO. I don’t think I could ever look back at his face again…
Hey D, well I think the worst thing in life is not letting people in your life know how important they are to you. Yes of course it will hurt if he doesn’t recieve your affections as you would like, but I promise you it only hurts for a little while and that pain really is one that will FREE you from your past & give you room to move on with the future. So just go ahead & let him know so you can be free to live the best of your ability whatever the outcome may be. :)
let me know how things went.well just tell him you will never know how he feels if you don’t say anything, when it comes to love the best thing is just letting it be known you don’t want to wonder what if.
I didn’t tell him…and nothing happened that day…. it was about 20 days ago… but I am going t meet him this saturday on a local party… But I don’t want to tell him about my feelings… But I am asking my friend to give him a hint… so that he wont know about it…but he will have to think about it…and then I will see his reactions
well just go for it! you will never know if he does not feel the same then just stay as friends,atleast you will know you gave it atry. Good luck ( even though everything will be ok)
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