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skittles4295
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why are girls so complicated?

Sorry, I just need to vent out my anger.

one second you hug me, the next second you are screaming at someone.
You get your friend to ask me out instead of doing it in person.
when you break up with me you get your friend to do it (AND BY TEXTING) and never. i repeat. never. give me a reason why you broke up with me.
After I spend 2 hours of trying to get over 10 people to see a movie…you destroy it.
You tell us you will always be there for us…but you leave us behind.
You are extremely hippocritical…you think of us as terrible people when we do something bad…but when you do something bad, you think that it is okay for you to do it.
You fight with other girls like there is no tommorow.
You seem to complain about everything.
You just need to get your feet wet…
…and have fun.

I’m sorry I just had to vent out my anger right now.

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xxtater_skinsx offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 years, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

nice. i like it. good way on letting it out

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♥Finley (JAYS) offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 years, 1 month ago (16 minutes after post)

aww… I’m sorry… we really can be total jerks can’t we… it can really depend on the girl… but a lot comes from being insecure (which most of us slowly grow out of). Having a friend ask you out is a sure sign of it. She’s too afraid you’ll say no to ask you herself. And as for the mood swings… you should know where that comes from by now. There’s not much that can be done other than to ignore it. That never goes away. The texting thing is extremely cold… but again probably out of fear which is the mother of insecurity. Some of that just sounds like downright immaturity, which only time and experience can cure. It’ll get easier. Hang in there… and there are girls out there that aren’t so… stuck up. You just have to be patient and learn to see through the bull crap. Odds are, we value your opinion and your approval so much you can’t imagine, and it can make us do some crazy stuff. Good luck with it.

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The music of love offline Verified User (6 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Santa Barbara, CA, US | 6 years, 1 month ago (24 minutes after post)

i’d never do that thats only the b****y people who don’t have anything better in their pathetic lifes then break guys hearts. god i hate people like that who break up with their bfs by there freinds and i really hate it when your freind does it without even telling you that sux. we can be b*tches sometimes, but we’re not all like that (iswear) even tho it seems like it, its just that we get so boy crazy that we don’t stop to think. i did that with my first BF and we ended up going to fast and my freinds made me break up with him even tho i really liked him. i’m sorry for all the b*tches you’ve had to deal with, but who ever did that to you i would suggest to go kick her @$$. sorry i prolly wasn’t much help.
~Hannah Love

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lilyhehehe offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 6 years, 1 month ago (14 hours, 56 minutes after post)

wow sounds like that one girl’s a bit wack. I’m sorry. I try hard not to be like that. But yeah, some girls at my school are total biotches.

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skittles4295 offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Cherokee, TX, US | 6 years, 1 month ago (18 hours, 31 minutes after post)

Thank you everyone.
I was born and raised (1-7 years old) in a small, small town in California. We were kinda poor. everyone was. Everyone was also extremely friendly. I never knew a girl like the one I described. When I was seven I moved to Texas in a city where 4 out of 5 girls/guys were incredibly rich. Everyone was mean and b*tchy.

All I want to do is go back.

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The music of love offline Verified User (6 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Santa Barbara, CA, US | 6 years, 1 month ago (20 hours, 2 minutes after post)

bo way i live in california what town did you grow up in? (sorry kinda of topic)

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skittles4295 offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Cherokee, TX, US | 6 years, 1 month ago (20 hours, 29 minutes after post)

Hermosa Beach.

Not every one was poor. but in my area of town people’s houses looked nice on the outside but were small and kind of cruddy on the inside.

Some great people there.

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Chasco155 offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Dornsife, PA, US | 6 years ago (4 weeks after post)

I relate… I don’t think as a man ill ever understand. but I love women and they just drive me crazy

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skittles4295 offline Verified User (6 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Cherokee, TX, US | 6 years ago (4 weeks after post)

can’t live with them
can’t live without them

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leanneci offline Unverified User #
Irvine, CA, US | 6 years ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

omg i am so sorry you probably dont deserve that kinda of person anyways you should get someone that truly loves you and doesnt brake up wit on a text that is being selfish and retarted i have friends who are like that they are really annoying…….. talk to me if you want to bc yeah i no wat its like evn tho i am a girl

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edkate5 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 12 months ago (2 years, 1 month after post)

i… am not going to lie. that sounded like poetry. pure poetry. you ought to be a poet. but i am getting away from myself. the mind of a girl is more complex than those space probes that NASA uses. the only thing i achieve when trying to understand girls is a headache. If there was a girl out there who opened up without having to be pried open, would answer with a yes or no most times when asked a question, never used sarcasm, because NOBODY likes to hear sarcasm, we guys would call that kind of girl an angel. a purebread angel. there’s just no other way of putting it. unfortunatly, that relates to less than 1 percent of the female population…

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gonzales98 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 12 months ago (2 years, 1 month after post)

Girls don’t realize how complicated they really are. I really don’t have anything else to say, so i’ll tell a joke to fill up some more space. What do micheal jackson and a garbage bag have in common? They’re both made out of plastic and hazerdous to your children. Sorry, i know that’s totally unrelated to the topic. lol.

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 12 months ago (2 years, 1 month after post)

Are girls complicated? yes. what is the cause of this complication? The world of men may never know. I’m kind of with gonzales on this one. girls don’t realize how complicated they really are. they don’t see themselves as complicated because that’s just their human nature. Now, you think girls are complicated, just wait until they become full-fledged women. But hey, maybe it’s just one of those things that’s complicated on purpose to make life more lively. idk, but i can assure you that this problem does not have the ability to be solved with one simple sentence.
And gonzales, i’ve got a better joke fyi. knock knock. (who’s there?). John McCain. (John McCain who?). Exactly. I have no idea why i just responded to your joke with a joke means both jokes are, as you said, totally unrelated to the topic. oh well.

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