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Hey I just moved to a new town in a new state, and

I am having a hard time making friends, no one will talk to me, and I try to talk to them but they all look at me like I am crazy, What should I do?

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punkie4 edited this post 2 years, 6 months ago. Read the previous text »

Hey I just moved to a new town in a new state, and I am having a hard time making friends, no one will talk to me, and I try to talk to them but they all look at me like I am crazy, What should I dot?

johngraham21 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (4 minutes after post)

i know how you feel. i don’t have any advice. but try to make a friend out of yourself. it will make your loneliness hurt less.

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indigoooo offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
New York, NY, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (11 minutes after post)

join something, anything, i know it sounds cliche but do it, it really helps

punkie4 offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
San Francisco, CA, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Thanks that really helps, I will do that

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Intrusion offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (12 minutes after post)

First. Get rid of your hate. Don’t be afraid to speak. Just be a good guy.
It takes time.

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punkie4 offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
San Francisco, CA, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Girl just be a good girl

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Hey I just moved to a new town in a new state, and I am having a hard time making friends, no one will talk to me, and I try to talk to them but they all look at me like I am crazy, What should I do
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dalilatelle offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
BR | 2 years, 6 months ago (18 minutes after post)

it’s really hard to be the new girl at school… I know… but luckly we will find at least one friend…if not…well it’s boring…I can tell u that…I spent all my last year of high scholl without any friends… just a few people that I could have a nice short chat…but after scholl everything gets better trust me.

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punkie4 offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
San Francisco, CA, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Thanks, There is this one girl that talks to me a lot, and I sit with her at lunch sometimes, but her friends think I am a freak, I sure hope you are right?!?!?!

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Jester Red offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Kailua, HI, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

Be friendly and outgoing. Feel out the situation for how things work in your new place. Above all try to avoid things that start with “Where I used to live…” People will take that as you telling them that where you were was better and they should change. After a while you will be able to tell them the funny stories but for now you need to get to know them so you can decide if you want them to know you.

Good luck! Just my $.02

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soccer_gal17 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (2 years after post)

Punkie4 I get what your going through. I just moved to a new town too…. only im out of high school and I just graduated from community college, and I’m taking a year off before I apply to the school in my new state. Because out of state college is an arm and a leg to pay for, but I get what your saying about how its hard to make new friends. I’ve only been here for about a month and I still have no friends and I just started a new job and nothings happened yet! so i’m kinda bummin a lot and it get’s really lonely in my old town I had a ton of friends and it was so…easy for me to make new ones back where I used to live but now it’s really hard if anyone could give me a few pointers that’d be great.

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