Love help: i cant get him out of my head.

indigoooo

i cant get him out of my head.

i need tips on how to stop thinking about someone. to elaborate, all i do is get random memories of random moments with him or things he said. we dated briefly and he really broke my heart, we remained friends and now years later he’s going out with the girl he broke my heart for, and he suggested we get together, and i had been finally feeling over it.we met even though he has this girlfriend and we slept together, and it was kind of weird, and he’s kind of a **** so all i really want now is to not be thinking about him.

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Infidel Jester 1 #
Santa Monica, CA, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (1 minute after post)

Sorry, just failed “forgetting about someone 101″

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indigoooo edited this post 2 years, 7 months ago. Read the previous text »

i cant get him out of my head. i need tips on how to stop thinking about someone.

Help me with: i think the best approach to conflict is usually to head straight into it, deal with it that helps me forget it and move

Anonymous #
2 years, 7 months ago (11 minutes after post)

then why not talk to him about how you feel?

XAmIeEX 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (13 minutes after post)

awww darling! who is his girlfriend? where are you from? how old are you?

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indigoooo 2 #
New York, NY, US | 2 years, 7 months ago (14 minutes after post)

i don’t think he’d care, and either way i’m too embarassed cause i’m not supposed to care about him… i’m from new york, im 19.. his girlfriend is this girl who had been mine and his best friend when we first dated, which is why i didn’t feel so bad about seeing him while they’re together

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XAmIeEX 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 7 months ago (23 minutes after post)

yep darling it may be so so so hard babes, but you have to forget about him!!…spend time with some girlfriends they always cheer you up x i bet soon when you walk round that coner someone so so fantastik will just bump right into you and you wont even know it till hes right in your face
all my wishes x x

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cazshawcre #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 week after post)

im feelin the same,been wiv this guy for 4 years and hes left me for another girl whos like my family,im heartbroken how am i gonna ever stop thinkin bout him and get him out of my head?

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louisemil #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (11 months, 3 weeks after post)

talk to him i felt the same about a boy i just could get hin out my head i had to talk to him because it was driveing me mad when i talk thing trow with him i new there was no going back thay he had moved on and that i had to two it was hard buy every thing happens foe a resom lol xxxxx

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louisemil #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (11 months, 3 weeks after post)

louisemilo i think u r right u just have to talk that the only things that will get hin iut of ur head

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dkladki #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 year, 1 month after post)

its the hardest thing in the world trying to forget someone your crazy about when they dont want you anymore…. it eats you up and makes you feel empty….. trying to forget someone you dont really want to forget, but no you have to is very sad and your saying goodbye to what could have been,all your hopes and dreams….

they get under your skin…… im there at the moment.. it sucks….. i find reading self help books help…

Iv been here before.. and iv thought i would never get over them… and that noone will ever match up to them…. but i did.. and i have met other people since who i really really liked…

However…. im also in your position again.. and after a short romance.. with whom i fell completely inlove with…and who left me cause he is going travelling the world and doesnt want a girlfriend…. im left to feel noone can replace what we had…… its horrible… you just gotta ride it babe….. it will eventually go away…. mean time……. eat loads of pizza and get drunk.. and cry… xxxxx

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lilplayababy_12 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (2 years, 4 months after post)

Honestly just chill…laugh at it!! People come in ur life so u learn stuff. When true love comes around your not going to feel scared that you will loose that person:) and btw…ditch both ur “friend” and obviously ur boyfriend becasue there was some major backstabbage going on there. People are messed up, so you gotta have ur eyes open lolout with the old…in with the new…ur 19 man u got a whole lotta years a head and u’ll prolly say ewww “what did i ever see in that guy?” 5 years down the road.

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An Unknown Location | 4 weeks ago (2 years, 6 months after post)

hi i just need tips on how to get this boy out of my head i am crazy about hiim i just want to shout it out in front of all my mates to just let it out but i cant cuz i need to hold him in plez help me :D

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