friends help: i want to start enjoying life. - Help.com

what you should do dude is take a few days away from everything. go to school but dont swim or hang out with your mates. just give yourself time to think n chill. grab a guitar n play some music even if you dont know how to play. find a guitar tutor book n just have fun.

if your bored with swimming why not try running or something like football or soccer as americans say. lol. its great fun and you dont have to be amazing to play it. just get a few mates n a ball n have a game.

all ya gotta do, is say, “I’m changing.” Go find a sport you like, like tennis or track. I got lots of friends in track. You don’t like swimming, so tell your parents that.

- Maybe try martial arts.
- or to play an instrument (guitar, piano)
- or read some fine books you can ask for advice to the librarian.
- you can try to learn cooking
- painting?
- hell you can also try gardening, make a garden at your own taste
- and travel if you can

Get into new activities man, it’s up to you to look for them, in the end…It’s not me the one bored but you.
If you dont like swimming then stop. Your dad is not going to kill you for doing it. what is he going to say? “I hate you son, get away from me forever because you dont like swimming”. I have quite the feeling he won’t say that and you also have to learn to fight for what you want, it’s not your dad living your life, it’s you.

(By the way…the girl situation…gee I’m stuck in there too ;P)