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screw them and social pressure! be who you are and looks arn’t that important.

Wow, how is she your friend? Tell her to bugger off.

Besides, its better to have a big nose and small lips than a michael jackson nose and DSL’S

-Seraph-

hey,
u shouldnt even want to sink to her level, i am not sure if she really is ur friend or maybge she was just tryin to help and kinda messed up. I have really thin lips and a massive nose but u no wat i am ok with it most days and on the days that i am not i just apply bronzer and lip plumping gloss and it makes me feel and look so much better. The most important thing and the hardest thing is no to listen to every1 in ur class because the likely hood is that the peopl who are the most beautiful now are full of insecurities they just hide them well because confidence is just an act.
Good luck

Yeah I don’t know just ignore her completely and pretend she doesn’t exist. Some people are so confident that nothing can hurt them…

Usually when people act out like that, say hurtful things about appearances, it is because they are secretly envious of the looks or attributes that are belittling.

Use this as a confidence builder - trust me. Confidence is the most attractive attribute any woman can have.

people that have to offend ,hurt or criticise other folks are usually v v unconfident in themselves. This does not excuse your friends behaviour but do not ‘take on’ , as hard as it may be confront them head on. They may be needing a helping hand as bizare as it may seem. Good luck with it and always belive that the best people are the people where there is some substance! Many people who are ‘beautiful’ are just trying to conform to the norm and once you scratch the surface there is little underneath! Everyone is beautiful in my eyes and it is not in a physical sense as the mind is more important , and you will find this out sooner than you think - of that I am certain !

I agree with rob, usually when people try to knock others down it’s because they lack true self-confidence. In my eyes true self-confidence comes from being ok with yourself flaws and all,inner or outer, because we all have flaws no matter how perfect some people may seem. And personally, I don’t think she’s much of a friend if she’s that insensitive to your feelings.

Dont listen 2 her.Try 2 be yourself and dont care about wat she or the others say..Ive recently been told today that I am weird and annoying by my bff since kindegarten just b/c ths guy she likes thinks I am.N shes teh 1 wh wanted me 2 talk 2 him 4 her..(the point is)is that dont listen 2 others and act and be yourself!!!!!!!!!!

yeah! Better a creative “weird” person than a bland souless popularity chasing poser!