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XAmIeEX invited 1 user to read this post 2 years, 6 months ago.
i was going away with him, then we split up, we got back 2gether 2 days b4 he went on holiday, he told me he had cancelled my plane flight, when really he took his mate!!!!
him and his mate ended up meeting sum girls and his mate was sleeping with 1, andy claims he neva but i think he is lieing to me, HES SICK IN THE HEAD!!!
hes only deniying it because im carrying his child, but hes not botherd about me at all, he couldt care if i died!!!
he tells me he loves me….
WELL he can blow it out his ***
This boy has stressed you out, remember, no one is worth your time if all they do is stress you and out and worry you.
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Xamiex. when you are pregnant you are in the most sensitive situation. this guy does not deserve you. i say u better move on with your baby. he’s the father but he’s not taking care of you emotionally. he gives u headaches. so, why let him do it.
yep you are so right, why did i let him do it?? hes mentaly abusing me!! one min he says everything i want to hear and the next everything is down the drain!! its always my fault acording to him, omg! what am i going to do? i loved him so much and hes broken my heart into infinaty pieces, i cant trust him anymore i dont know wheather hes telling me the truth, hes a sick sick sick liar!!
what sort of boyfriend would do that to me and the baby?
i just dont understand and hes got me in the possition now that i feel like i just wanna curl up nd die, hes driving me mad,
i really loved him, but obviously am not worth wee’ing on if i was on fire!!
now im worried about my baby, he says hes going to get a soliciter to fight for his rights! what rights has he got? we are not married we are not engaged we arnt together anymore and he lives miles away from me…. fare enough hes the father
does he have any rights?
he is the biological father that’s it. you can go on living without him. u can give him the right to see his child if you want. that is if YOU prefer to move on.
yea but if i dont hes going to take me to court
what can he achive from that?
i don’t know about that. ill invite friends to help on the legal issues.
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I’ve spent time trying to find out the legal right to deny the father from seeing the child.
Probably, you and your parents need to see an attorney on this one. Could find an case law on this one.
What state do you live in X?
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xamiex even though the guy is a total idiot, yes he has the right to see his child. He also has the legal responsibility to pay child support. Alot of people have idiots for Dads, so dont fret it too much.
Right now he doesnt have a case for anything to take you to court on.
As a matter of fact the ball is totally in your court. If you put father unknown he will have no legal rights at all but also not have the financial responsibility at all. I dont think what he has done deems it necessary to go this route. He has wronged you terribly but that doesnt mean he couldnt play a meaningful role as a Dad.
By the way lift your head high. Your a smart girl. I know its painful right now but I glad your not playing the niave girl who cant see whats right in front of her eyes.
Whether He is gonna act like that or not, you are still a wonderful person. You are strong and independant. You may have depended on him while you were together and think you lost your independance, but you never did. You merely ignored it, and that means all you have to do now is recover, go out and have fun, no matter what hurts. I know it’s painful and your thoughts of everything just keep playing over and over in your head, but you are better than that and everything really will be okay. Guys are nothing but little boys sometimes, and their mouths are bigger than their true feelings. They may love you to death, but act like they don’t, and say and do things that show that they don’t. But deep down, they hurt just as bad, cry just as much, and know that they care so much. You will pull through, he’s not the only one for you. If you guys split up once, then it’s not meant to be. I dated a guy for 14 months and I thought he was my one and only, only to find out he was one big ***. Forget him, move on, and have the time of your life. You can’t spend every day worrying about him, cuz chances are, he’s not doing the same for you. And every day you waste on him is another day you can never get back. Love yourself. He’ll realize that hopes can fail, dreams can fade. He can hope that what he’s doing is right, but he can dream on. He needs to be loved and he knows it. He’s just afraid to let you take care of him. Love is there in the end for us all, and it’s the one thing that molds everyone together. Don’t give up on yourself, your strengths, and just know that he is weak. If he did do that, he is low. And since you don’t know for sure if he did, don’t worry about it. Move on. Show him that it’s his loss. Because every second you show you care, is one more second he’s gonna hurt you. Live your life. You’re a girl, not his right. His ex girlfriend, not his life. He doesn’t get to screw you up too. Just FORGET ABOUT HIM.
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Think 3sons is right on this one. Most states look at it this way. But, would see an attorney.
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Don’t let him use and abuse you like that. You deserve a lot better than him, always remember that. Trust is a very risky concept that can hurt or mend lifes.
X, for now take care of yourself. u can’t spend more time thinking about this guy who does not think about your feelings.
It sounds like you’ve made up your mind about your relationship with this guy. You’ve said you loveD him but you can’t trust him, he’s sick and a liar and he abuses you mentally. So it sounds to me like you’ve decided your life would be better off without him (and I agree). As the biological father of your baby he will have rights to ‘access’. For your sake during your pregnancy I would try to come to some arrangement with him now about seeing the child so that you can relax and take it easy. Even if he is a pig of a man he still could be a saint of a father. Make it a fair arrangement that you are happy with. Sorting this now would be much better than going to court with a new baby. Good luck to you both. Be strong.
I just want to say take care of you and your unborn child. I’ll keep you in my prayers.
Hi, I like your username by the way… Anyway, you have already made the mistake of having a baby for this dude..dont complicate it by staying on with him cos you love him…I think love should be reciprocal…have the baby then take your life back in your hands.. you are a very prety gurl and i think you deserve more than you are getting…
keep your head up..you have more ppl who love you than you could ever imagine…
hey i totaly understand but you know what do you think would be the best thing for you to do?? i have made the same mistake(s) i am finely learning from it
you are a women take pride of that you are worth somthing. only when you let some one treate you less then you r is when you tear you self down. i think that you need to be strong for your self. you can find someone that will honor u as a respectable lady keep your head up (-:
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