Love help: i was dumped by my boyfriend and i often feel im ugly and unable - Help.com

Take some time to heal. Trying to get another guy to make up for what you see as inadequacies never works. I tried the same thing for years and it just ended up making me feel more miserable, then finally I took some time to heal and lo and behold, I felt like I didn’t need any guy to complete me. It was the best feeling ever. Though wouldn’t you know I met my future husband about two months after that, LOL. I wouldn’t trade those two months for anything, though–and I’m willing to bet you’d like some time to feel like that, too. :) You can’t get that feeling from any guy out there, so just work on feeling better about yourself . . . see a psychologist if you have to.

I think the psychologist might be a good idea. Your self worth and feelings of attractiveness shouldn’t be based around a guy. You have some major self esteem issues. One thing that helped me when I went through a time of self degredation was looking in the mirror every day and saying out loud. “I am pretty, I deserve more, I deserve better.” Soon you believe it and start feeling better about yourself. And looks are hardly everything, what matters is who you are inside. Love yourself and a man is sure to follow. Good luck and God Bless.

allow time to be used to heal urself. moving on is important to give urself new experiences as expecting life to be as what it was will not help you. just giving urself that good push to go to places u like and u may be lucky enough to find some1 else you like. good luck. x x x

also. just ill mention. no1 can ever love you for how you look. it is never possible. even some1 who is really beautiful, they can never be liked for the wau they look. it is impossible. some1 who thought i was beautiful and said that to me used it as a reason to abuse me, so it shows.

It sounds like your a tad insecure about yourself. Truth is your probably not ugly and you probably will find another guy. Trust me this prolly wasn’t the guy you were going to marry in the long-run. But like everyone says it takes time to heal. And it really does. So just hang in there. And in the meantime try to hang out with your friends, listen to your favorite song or do something you like too.
Good luck.

I lived with an ugly guy for two years, and I loved him. I moved out 7 months ago and we dated off and on. I heard he was living with his ex-sister-in-law, had to go see for myself, cried all evening but alot better now. You do have to heal, takes alot of time alone, good luck to all.