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i love my girlfriend so much.

I’m in my last year of school just about to go off to university and i don’t know what to do. I love her so much and i don’t want to leave her because I’m scared it wont last. We both have issues with each other being with different people and i really don’t want it to end badly like many of my friends relationships have. What can i do?
I will be 2000 miles away from her in London while she will be here in HK China so i can only see her every couple of months and the time zones are so far apart.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (41 minutes after post)

some long distance relationships work for others and some don’t. it would be wise if you and ur girl would talk deeply about it and see if you guys are willing to give it a try. long distance stuff is not easy. it takes more than trust and more than communication. but you’ll go through if both parties are willing.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

Send her my way

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Dubai, 03, AE | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

long distance relationships are difficult to maintain, but that does not mean that you can’t try, you can just take it easy and perhaps give space to each other to meet other people so that you will not feel locked in the relationship remember you are both growing up, so you need to remain with each other without feeling stuck in the relationship. Take care.

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