boyfriend help: i wanted to stay at my boyfriends house but i wasnt allowed. - Help.com

how old are you?

16

if it was his mom who did not allow you to stay with him then she knows that you are guys are young and she’s lettng u guys avoid temptation especially if you are left alone in his room. what ya think?

it was my mum who wouldn,t let me stay but his mum was cool with it. btw this is chloes friend who is writing this problem. take a look at my friends problem and tell me what you think.

it takes a big amount of trust for a parent to trust her daughter stay in a boy’s house. would take a while earning that thing. they can also meet and have fun somewhere like in the park, movies etc for a date. i don’t think they should actually concern them if your friend is not allowed to stay in his house.

so do you just think if i left it for a while she would allow me to stay at his?see with your problem can you explain to me what you mean a bit more.

i don’t know with your mom, it is her decision as a mother. she has intuition. why dont u ask your mom so you would know? :o)

ok. btw how old are you? did you look at chloes problem?

i am 28. will check.

hey, i was 15when i first got with boyfriend, we spent alot of time together and were very close, i asked my mum if i could stay over at his almost every weekend but she kept saying no to me! in the end i gave up 4a few weeks then decided to sit down with her n talk about properly with her, she appreciated my maturity and i explained that not staying there didnt stop the inevitable from happening it just meant that i would be safer when it did! she respected me for talking properly with her and explaining my feelings and did let me stay there! but i had to earn her trust and keep it! u need to show ur mum ur mature enough for this step, and when she says no accept it like an adult, she will soon see your grown up enough for this kind of situation! its just mothers intution to protect from any possible endangerment! x