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pjenny200
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Sayreville, NJ, US

how do you know if someone likes you?

help cuz if someone likes me i hav to know and it would be rele dumb if i thought someone liked me but they rele dont. help guys!

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dolla offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 minute after post)

well most girls have a feeling inside i cant tell you what it feels like but you’ll get that feeling….and thats when you truely know…..or you could do the easy thing and ask lol

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dolla offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (2 minutes after post)

well if your a girl but if your a boy then just ask lol

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pjenny200 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Sayreville, NJ, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (3 minutes after post)

im a girl
too shy to ask
i mean id be rele embarased if he said no!

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dolla offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (6 minutes after post)

well…..if you do ask get someone else to do it or you could just try to hang around him more and thats when you can really get the feeling becuz even though some people dont try to sometimes they still express love or like feelings towards another person..

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pjenny200 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Sayreville, NJ, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (9 minutes after post)

he keeps touching me by accident… like bumping into me
stepping on my foot

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dolla offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (11 minutes after post)

well he likes you that happened to me before

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pjenny200 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Sayreville, NJ, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (43 minutes after post)

k thanx i hav 2 go!
luv ya

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daniellegooden00 offline Unverified User #
US | 2 years, 3 months ago (3 months, 3 weeks after post)

I have someone I like and one day she said “My car is on the side of the church.
2nd “We can keep it on the down low. What do that mean.danie

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SEXY_LADY_51 offline Unverified User #
US | 2 years, 2 months ago (4 months after post)

I really like dizz guy n he keeps strin at me and smiling at me does he like me????

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xofroggyface2 offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Thornton, PA, US | 2 years ago (6 months, 3 weeks after post)

i have a question myself…this guy really likes me and he asked me out atleast 15 times and now im string to feel bad =(….im truly thinking about making his dreams come true on christmas…do u think tht would be weird or okay or what?

anniezcreationz offline Unverified User #
US | 1 year, 10 months ago (8 months, 1 week after post)

That wouldn’t be weird. It is your choice of when to accept his/her invitation asking you out. So you can have a lot of time to think about it. Don’t feel rushed! You won’t think the right way… Good luck!

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xodieseldog0 offline Unverified User #
Brooklyn, NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (8 months, 4 weeks after post)

i like this kid in my class,hes new but hes in special ED but hes really cool,hes smart,and hes nice. he really shouldnt be in special ED . but u can tell if i like him hes cute,the only problem is he is from the bronx so of course he talks like a gangsta and is kinda black. my friends all say they dont like him but he is cute to me. i dont no if i should go out with him cause my friends might make fun of me and he isnt the same colr as me!

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xodieseldog0 offline Unverified User #
Brooklyn, NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (8 months, 4 weeks after post)

anser me! plzzz i need to no because one day i think i heard him say to me ‘’hi honeybun’ and then just walk away but my friend is really good friends with him and he said he likes my friend gabby not me so idk! plzzzzzzzzzzz comment me! im only gonnna abe on this one more time so do it quick!

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xodieseldog0 offline Unverified User #
Brooklyn, NY, US | 1 year, 10 months ago (8 months, 4 weeks after post)

i love this kid ryan! he is so hot!

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luky7_gr offline Unverified User #
US | 1 year, 10 months ago (9 months after post)

ask him out. Also i like this guy, my bestfriend, and he kinda thinks im hot, but that was a while ago and he’s really nice to me, and stares at me sometimes does he like me?

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Stafford, N1, GB | 1 year, 9 months ago (9 months, 2 weeks after post)

Hi i rly need some help ?….
I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years now and i love him so much and he loves me 2 but everytime i see this different guy in skwl i feel like i like him he always looks at me and smiles and i think i like him but i wouldnt do anything about it … I have spoke to him on the web b4 but he hasnt rly shown tht much intrest but when he sees me he always looks at me …. am i just crazy to think this lol x

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lex_1 offline Unverified User #
Monett, MO, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (9 months, 2 weeks after post)

hey they maybe a big flirt but then what do you do if they are

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cortezs_baby200 offline Unverified User #
Atlanta, GA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (10 months, 2 weeks after post)

how can u tell if someone really likes you if the front on you most of the time and they always with one of your homies and asking them qusetion about you and if they call but its just one feeling that you get when you know someone truly like you

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Legovade offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 year after post)

Well, If you dont know if he/she likes you, you can start out as friends so he/she will get to know you, Then, just w8 and time will come.

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lollipop offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 year, 1 month after post)

I like this guy and he is cute but i dont care bout dat… i reli lik him and i think he rei likes me 2 caus i herd him and his friend talking about his crush and he kept looking at me and he always coms and talks to me wen he sees me. whats a good way 2 ask him out??

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kdeptuc offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 year, 1 month after post)

i really like this guy we dated 4 times and he dumped me all 4 times. he acts like he hates me but i still really like him. i dont know what to do. should i like this guy or not. ive tried to let him go but its never worked…

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akanumb offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (1 year, 1 month after post)

hey all! well i have a major problem, this guy that was obsesed with me last year, he would ask me out all the time and i didnt like him at all. But this year he really got cute and im not sure if he still likes me. He remembers little things i said like how i got a misquito bit and asked me if i wanted to get a ride home with him on his bike from school plus he is super nice to me not to my friends and asked me for my number but maybe cuz he wanted my friends too. wat do u think?

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eevee109 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 year, 2 months after post)

I really like or love this guy who everyone likes and he sometimes picks on me in a funny way and he alway look in my eyes. does he like me?

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mrs.joe_jona offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 year, 3 months after post)

well some guys way of flirting is
pickin on the girl
and others is smiling and bein all nice and sweet to the girl
so he mite lyk u

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a.l.a.n. offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 year, 3 months after post)

Hi i am goin through the same thing there is this guy who i like n he likes me but he likes my best friends cusin as well and he keeps askin her out but she doesnt like him and she says no HE KEEPS ASKIN HER i asked him if he likes me n he sed ye but my besties cuz is hotter im just gonna hang in there mayb he will get bored of her like me instead i mean Love can wait a little bit cant it? if its worth it!

hope it helps bibi

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patriciasimoes27 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 year, 3 months after post)

Heyy! i have a problem! its a big one! omg! im so unsure of something! but so much has happened. i cant take the strain in my heart for much longer so plzzzz! plz plz! could u read this and give me advice!! plz!

right.. theres this boy.. and ive known him for a while now. i liked him before but i never thought he liked me back. but as soon as i turned 16. he started flirting with me ALOT more.! we started this kinda joke thing of pretending to get married.. and we say that were gonna live in the country side.. and were gonna have 3 children and were gonna stay together till were 70 and everything like that!

the other day he came round to my house to play wii with my bro. and wen ever he comes round me and him always play fight. like step on eachothers shoes.. wrestle a bit and everything! all the stuff. like he kicks me (nicely) i kick him back and so on..
also on the same day he came around.. as a sort of pretend thing … i gave him the ring i was wearing nd he gave me his to symbolyse our marriage! lol. and we only gave it back the next day.

Also, i lay down on the bed.. and he lay down next to me and we crossed arms cos my sis was trying to get in the middle cos she was jealous lol. and then he leaned his head on my shouler and i lay my head on his head. then after he lay down side ways and lay his head on my belly.

also we decided to sneak out and go out for a walk and go shopping together. so we did and it was really fun…. when he looks at me he looks at me in the eyes but i still dont think he likes me. cos its been over 6 years and he hasnt made any moves and this has only been going on a few weeks since i turned 16. and wen he took me home on that day all i got was a hug when i was expecting something more … i mean if he liked me WHY DONT JUST SAY IT!…

i dont know! i really dont! he has got soo many other girls after him hes really gawjus and hes not the shy frigid type either cos den i would understand but he aint. i donno what is going on .. if he likes me .. or not ggrrr i donno!

please tell me what you think!!

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awesomeautumnsky offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (1 year, 4 months after post)

Well there is this guy who likes me. But I do not know if I like him how do I find out?

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ichi_5201 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 year, 5 months after post)

hey…
I have an admirer younger than me …. what will i do?
I don’t know if I like him or not….
He is cute, many likes him…What will I do ? I’m 2 years older than him…

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kaylajepperson offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 year, 6 months after post)

I’m 11 and I like this boy and he stares at me and allways passes my desk! Does he like me?

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guccigabi offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (1 year, 7 months after post)

what do you do when a guy likes you but then the next day he acts like he don’t know you? its kind annoying.
-he finally asked me to sit next to him then he asked for my number and im kinda shy so i don’t know what to do. then the next day i had him i was still nervous, but then i was watchin a movie in my class and he asked me to sit next to him again and i did and everything but i was really quiet and he was askin me questions/ not a lot though.
then when the movie was over we had to discuss it cuz it was english class. blah blah
then class ended. after that we had christmas break so i didnt get to see him for 2 weeks almost and i only talk to him once on the phone then he out of town. after x-mas break, i was english class and he didnt even stare or try to talk to me. & he usually does, he did for the last two days already.
so what does that mean?
help pls :)

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kaylajepperson offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (1 year, 7 months after post)

I don’t know!!! Maybe, he was just tired from Christmas break or something and just decided to be quiet that day!!

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DINA_DINADIV offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (1 year, 11 months after post)

Not just tell him how u fill

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kaylajepperson offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 3 weeks ago (1 year, 11 months after post)

no thx

One more thing……
A few days ago, it was wierd, I walked into the room and someone says: “Kayla! Drew is “hugging” your desk!!” and I turn around and I found out ti’s true!! OMG!! And yesterday, he pretended to do it again!!

1.Why did he do that?
2.Why did he do it to ME??

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myweesi offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 years, 5 months after post)

Well from my point of few i think someone likes you :)

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