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So i have a problem with my boyfriend’s mom.

My boyfriend and I have been together for three years and for the first time I got into a fight with his mom. My boyfriend and I were arguing. I was on my cell and he was on his mom’s cell. We got into a fight and were hanging up on each other. Then I went to call him back on her phone and she answered ******* me out and hung up on me. this happened about 3 weeks ago. his mom and i have not spoken to each other since. I go over to his parents house (he lives there) and she wont even be in the same room as me or say anything to me. When i call on the house phone she never answers she hands the phone to someone else to answer. I can no stand this anymore. I think she is being very childish for being a 40 year old mother. I dont feel that I did anything wrong because I never said anything to her or ******* her out or hung up the phone on her. I also do not feel that I should apoligize, or be the one to start a convo with her. I am not saying that she needs to apoligize but I think she needs to be the one to take me aside and settle this. I am so frustrated with this situation and it is tearing me and my boyfriends apart. I try and talk to him about it but he just gets mad because he does not want to deal with this problem becuase it is between his mom and me.

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\m/ metal fiend \m/ offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 2 years, 6 months ago (19 minutes after post)

just be the strong one and apologize, even if you really dont mean it, itll mean somethin to the mom. and your relationship with ur boyfriend.

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bar2btl offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 week after post)

You are both being childess, someone has to break the ice, it may as well be you. After all you are visiting her house, it’s not his house.Make the first move and ask her if the two of you can have a one on one talk to fix the problem, if you don’t, it will cause major problems with you and your boyfriend, he won’t side with you against his Mother.

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triciaharve offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 2 years, 2 months ago (4 months, 3 weeks after post)

I have being living with my boyfriend for 1 year. It’s like we are married. Everything
was going fine and we were always making love and being flirty with each other. Know he has problems finacially and emotionally problems with his family. Now it’s like he is turned off by me because of his problems.

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