Love help: So I am 37, divorced, and a straight male.

Jester Red

So I am 37, divorced, and a straight male.

I am in OK shape not ugly not poor and not rich. After my divorce and my recovery that followed I tried dating but couldn’t seem to find anyone my age and single looking for a relationship. Am I looking in the right places? Where would you recommend looking for my Mrs. Right?

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Maximina 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 minute after post)

Where did you look

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[think peace] 2 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (1 minute after post)

go to churches. i think you could find a good woman at a church or go out to a coffe house or something similar

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Maximina 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (2 minutes after post)

That is only if you like religion or coffee

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Maximina 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (2 minutes after post)

What are you looking for

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Jester Red 0 #
Kailua, HI, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (8 minutes after post)

I am in Hawaii so I tried Waikiki clubs and only found very young girls looking to flirt or older ones looking for affairs. I am not a big fan of “organized” religion so church doesn’t really work for me. All the local coffee houses are full of college kids unless you go to $tarbucks and they are full of visiting tourists.

[think peace] 2 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (9 minutes after post)

blahg. well call up some old high school friends and see if they have any single friends

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Jester Red 0 #
Kailua, HI, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (15 minutes after post)

High School is 4,478 miles and about 20 years away from where I am now.

Maximina 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (16 minutes after post)

Jester I understand I have the same issues, but in Az. What are you like and interested in?

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[think peace] 2 #
Atlanta, GA, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (17 minutes after post)

well im so freakin sorry

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Jester Red 0 #
Kailua, HI, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (29 minutes after post)

My hobbies include Harley Davidson Motorcycles, Scuba diving, playing guitar, and watching stand up comedy. I have tattoos but none where they can bee seen and no scary ones. I like classic rock, punk, and some of the new rock. I like things that make me think, whether that is a good game of cards, a video game, welding, or fixing a car. To kind of sum me up I am a computer nerd that built his own Harley chopper by hand. And I have a sense of humor too.

Jester Red 0 #
Kailua, HI, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (32 minutes after post)

Sorry if I offinded you the_one. I am just saying that I am no longer in touch with people from High School.

Maximina 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (34 minutes after post)

Jester you need to look at every girl you come into conntact with as a potnial interest. When you in the grocery store look around if you see someone cute try to spark a conversation.

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Courtney Blair 6 #
Springfield, VA, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (46 minutes after post)

marry me.

Jester Red 0 #
Kailua, HI, US | 2 years, 6 months ago (47 minutes after post)

LOL If i knew you I might.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (4 hours, 36 minutes after post)

they can be found in unexpected places and unexpected times.

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~.^.~ 56 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 6 months ago (8 hours, 23 minutes after post)

If you like to read or listen to music, go to a bookstore. We have some were young singles in their 20’s to 30’s congregate. They have areas in these bookstores where you can get coffee/expresso/herbal teas or have discussions with others. I don’t know if you have any of these where you live, but its all I could think of.

punkette201 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 5 months ago (4 weeks after post)

try churches, there are a lot of nice girls in churches…. you sound like a great guy and maybe try a church or two!

mmmichaelidi #
Washington Crossing, PA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (10 months after post)

there is nothing out there, good Luck!!!

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