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whats going on thats making you feel this way? i know what people call help can sometimes make it worse

I go through the same thing, like the above poster, what is making you want to kill yourself?

i know this may seem like crazyness.. but i love you because god told me to love. he loves you too. you cant give up just yet. be strong and believe that there is something out there for you, because somewhere there is. and its staring you in the face and one day its just gonna smack ya and you’ll see it

ive been there before, it sometimes helps just to talk about it

I don’t get that you always think the quickest way out is suicide. In reality, just stating a belief that if you kill yourself you ********** where you’ll suffer more and why is it that your always worried about you other than those around you?

Don’t you realize by doing this your hurting more people than you know.

actually, when i felt like this, i felt i was hurting people more by being around, just so you see both sides…

Suicide, while it may seem tempting and a quick escape from a slow, painful and frustrating life think of it like this.

A. Your family and friends would be devastated.
B. You would be dead. Death means no second chances. Death is the end of the road with no turning back.
C. So many people out there are fighting for the life you are giving up.

Keep fighting. Dont let all the selfish people ruin life for you. There is so much you can do in life. Work at it, do anything. Set goals, I unno anything is better than just dying. If nothing else works talk to me. Please don’t kill yourself. If you talk to me, maybe just maybe I can shed some light to your life because I have been through everything. If you want to talk, just private msg me or something. Tell me your story, everyone has a story. I will try and help you. Even talking about it and getting a good cry will help you.

same as above, you can talk to me about anything, maybe i can help…id be glad to, ive been through a lot too

This sounds weird but there are people out there who love you even if they don’t know you - on the very basis that you are human, you are a person, you are a soul - and everyone, everyone deserves love - even when you think that none of your family or friends loves you please remember those people. I’ve been down, depressed but i can not pretend that i have suffered what you suffer - maybe my lack of experience doesnt qualify me to give any advice but that aside i’ll do it anyway. Know that there is something better than what is the now for you, that now that makes you want to die. know that you are stronger than you’ll ever imagine and that you will find that better - it may take time but that’s why we keep living - keep living time so we can take it to find the better. Remember the people who love you, even if they don’t know you and know that those people will help you - always.

You must change your head to change your life. You must unlearn what you have learned. You believe lies. Learn to be grateful. Focus your mind on what you have rather than what you lack. Changing your ways of viewing life requires effort and perseverance. You must choose to be happy. As long as you are willing to accept misery as inevitable, and continue to believe you are a powerless victim, you will suffer. Choose happiness.

ditto, Sathanas

Last reply was hardly helpful - ignore that person. Suicide isn’t always just a cry for attention - sometimes a person really needs the help - to feel happy again, to find a thing to live for. Even if this was just a cry for attention (which i don’t believe it is)i’d rather help out someone who doesn’t need help than not help out someone who does just cox i think they’re attention seeking.
Keep thinking your way out - find someone, live
love

I have been there myself at some point in my life. Everything was so dark. The world was cold. I didn’t see how my life could ever be worth living. But you know what? One day… suddenly… I just didn’t feel that way anymore. Time went by and eventually, I had days so incredibly wonderful where I was so hugely happy. And then I realized that if I had killed myself, I never would have felt the happiness that I was feeling on those days. What I am trying to say is: Don’t believe that you presently have the whole picture and think that your life is not worth living. Because things often change in ways that you can’t even begin to imagine when you are feeling as you presently are. You know, life is surprising. Never give up. Be patient.
There is a lot to learn. Life can actually be quite amazing.
I am happy I kept going long enough for me to realize this.
Believe me. Give yourself a chance.

I hope you’re feeling better - God Bless

I will put lilhollisterbabe in my prayers.
PLease keep it up moocow. Life is beautiful and though days are hard. I don’t remember exactly who told me but i heard a story once - why does God let bad things happen? a little girl asked her mother this. THe mother said to her; well would you like something nice to eat? THe girl said yes and the mum said well have some oil. THe girl said yuck. THe mum said; how about flour? That’s gross mum.. wHat about some raw eggs or baking soda? all these things are disgusting mum.
Yes, the mum said, by themselves they are bad but when i put them together i make a delicious cake. Bad things may happen - each thing by itself will be bad but when they are all put together in some way the Lord makes something good come out of them.
There will be a brighter day. Despair is a horrible thing - part of its effects is apathy - apathy is the second hand cause of so much bad in this world - stay clear of despair and hope for the better tomorrow. THere will always be people who love you - you may not even know some of them yet but they are in your future I am sure. ANd God always loves you. Always.
Goodluck and God BLess