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but im so fat that i cant even leave my house
You never kissed a boy? So, I can assume you are a virgin. I think your issue is not being overweight, but there is some major emotional issue that keeps you from getting close to people. You NEED to find a good therapist and start working through your issues. Know this, you are worthy of love and good life, but you have to seek it out. Do you work?
I so relate to you I’ve been over weight since I had my oldest daughter but it really got out of hand in the last four years its a bad place to be I went through some things that made me look at myself I mean really look at myself and I wasnt happy and hadn’t been in a long time but was so busy dealing with everyone else stuff that I didnt deal with me then it came to the point where i didnt have time for me. Im a person that loves to be in love and found myself single and trying to date its off the chain out here for a single woman and I ran into some real assholes because my self esteem was low and thought that I didnt deserve the kinda man that I really wanted and settle and got my understanding messed with this last guy took the cake I went from 220lbs to 168lbs and that wasnt good enough for him I worked my *** off and all he could say was look at this womans body etc he cheated on me with every skinny chick he could find they werent pretty jus thin he never wanted me he jus wanted to use me and boy did he I ended up in court with this butt wipe long story short you have to do what makes you happy if losing weight is going make you happy do it! if plastic surgery is going help make you happy do it! Im going try both myself so that I can get this body issue mess aside to deal with other things so I can at the very least look into what will make me happy no body else but me… GOOD LUCK! keep in touch I have some good things to tell you about to get you started on losing weight if you want
Oh by the way when you feel better about yourself all the other things will fall right into place like kissing men etc. its about confidence men like that it dosent matter if you are a size 2 or 32 if you think you are the **** they flock to you like moths to a flame my girlfriend is living proof of this she gets more action then the law allows I on the other hand dont get as much and its because low self esteems shows
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im sad and painful. every day is same, work and go home .when im off i don’t like to leave the house and see the people outside the world .i don’t like my self . sometime i was thinking of end my life. becuse im not happy why i am now. im depress and food can help me feel better ,that make me fat . i don’t like to be lonely. i wish all of this is a dream when i wake up all are fine . i thin
yall make me sad and fat
Just becuase you feel like your overweight or have been told to loose weight by others doesnt mean that that is the reason why you have never kissed a boy before. I myself was told 7 years ago i was completely overweight and that i needed to loose weight because it seemed like society would except me if i didnt. I was in school at the time and not only was i the tallest girl in my grade but i weighed the most. I decided then when i got into high school that i was tired of being the tall fat girl and that i wanted to be healthy. 7 years later i am now 123 pounds(before i was 175 pounds) and i am 5 feet 10 inches. when i first lost all the weight i thought that all the guys would then want to go out with me.. man was i wrong. just because i physically looked different doesnt didnt mean that the guys would automatically want me. so i went and applied for a few modeling jobs.. to my surprise i got alot of them, no im applying for a modeling agency. but doing all of this has made me gain a very strong self confindence and in the end my own confidence is what really attracted the guys. doesnt matter what you look like, as long as you have pride in youself and show that you have pride in yourself, people will notice you more. hope this helps anybody at all. bye
Hi my name is Neil Jones. 6 months ago I weighed roughly 210lbs (15 stone), not too big I hear you say but too big for me I was just so miserable.I searched the Internet for hours ordering weight loss pills and herbal remedies. Nothing I tried worked the herbal remedies made spotty and the pills dried out my skin. After much research i realised that there is really no easy way to loose weight. Its hard hard work and the only really guaranteed way is to exercise (jogging) and to eat healthy.
I decided to try and find an exercise routine that enabled me to loose weight and not take up too much of my time. I came across http://www.sadandfat.com/ and paid a small fee and received the routine i was looking for and the healthy eating tips i needed.
Now I’m not saying this routine is for you but it worked for me and i now weigh 154lbs (11 stone) and am now happy. I know what it is like being overweight trying all sorts of remedies so i thought i would just share what i found out with everybody. I know you have to pay a little bit of money which is annoying but I couldn’t find this information anywhere else on the Internet.
Give it a go and let me know how you get on
You fatt bitchh go get a life internet cant help youu
is your need for self validation so strong that you have to make those comments to someone in need. Have a think about what you typed and consider what it says about your character. I pity you erika.
If there is a problem with yourself…..sumbit to bigest loser please
You are beautiful!! And age is nothing and it has nothing to do with being able to date. And the fat part well its all about confidence hun you are your own enemy what you think is what you become. Now there are jerks out there in this world who think the only people who can be acceptable is skinny people well you know what you tell them people tell them to **** off! I would love to stay in contact with you. Kels
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