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Let them sort out their issues and stay out of it as much as possible.

Honestly, you need to let him make this decision and stay away from him until he does. He is creating a sense of confidence in you and its just not fair to you. Stay away from him until he makes a firm commitment to be just with you and he has no others on the side. It does not sound as though he can be trusted. Just my opinion though. If he is cheating on his girlfriend with you, it just makes matters that much more dangerous for a successful relationship with you.

Tell him to leave you alone until he is free and able to commit to just you. You cannot help him make this decision. Let him do it for himself.

I think you need to be a bit more patient. Things will sort themselves out. Let him deal with his problems, give him space, and after a while (could be months) maybe then he’ll be ready (or not) to be with you. The best thing for now, I think, is to step back and let things happen.

friendship involved too?? Definitely stay out of this!!

Say you do not want to be involved.

by not getting involved… as in don’t try to influence them and don’t get in the middle of it so to speak

For starters, drop him as a boyfriend. He does not treat you as well as you deserve.

Keep him out of your life totally. Not worth your time and energy in my opinion. Far better catches out there!

switch seats with someone!

well, ignore him then for now. Switch seats when you can!

He’s the one in the relationship, he will have to break up with her. If he does, it is not your responsibility to worry about her. The heart wants what the heart wants.

I guess it just depends on both of your morals. No one is judging you but do what you have to do to have a clear conscience, only you two can figure that one out.

Oh my **** you’re finding problems where there are none. Instead of picking holes in peoples’ advice try taking it on board. Just cut these people out of your life until it’s over, then when it’s quietened down make your move.

i was in ur position some time ago.
i went for the guy when he just got out of a relationship.
it looked as if it was pretty much over between them.
i fell in love with him.

he broke up with me.

and went back to her.

and im still in love with him.

moral of the story? leave it now no matter what for atleast 2-3 months. no matter how much u want it, its not worth the pain later on. plz take my advice.

well, can u stop shouting?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!??????????????????????????????