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I went on this site because I need advice.

I’m a senior in high school and I’ve been admitted to San Francisco State University. The problem is, I can’t go to San Francisco State if I don’t pass all my classes, and currently I am not passing Chemistry. I’m trying, and working my *** off, but it seems no matter what I do, my grade doesn’t get any better, today I kind of had a mental breakdown and I’m REALLY REALLY stressed out, I don’t know what I’ll do if I can’t go to San Francisco State, I’m not going to try and blame my problem on anyone, I know that I am 100% responsible for my grade, but I honestly don’t know what I’d do to myself or how I’d react, let’s just say I would NEVER EVER EVER forgive myself. Besides all that, I’m having friend drama, won’t go into detail about that. Everyone says that your senior year is supposed to be your best year in high school, so far it has been my least favorite and most stressful year in high school. I’m constantly depressed and stressed. I graduate on June 14th, and to be honest I’m exited about it, but I would much rather it be in a month, so I could get my grade up. I should be used to screwing up, because I tend to do it a lot, but I need help with this. I can’t take it any more. I will never forgive myself if I can’t go to San Francisco State next year. I just want to be happy again, let’s just say I haven’t really been happy for a while. Please anyone, I need advice. I’m freaking out, I’m depressed, and I’m mad at myself, and stressed beyond belief.

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NisaHEARTStyga offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 82 #
Bronx, NY, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

I’m having the same problem with Physics…My plan is to sttudy really hard and pass the final with a really high grade to offset the failing grades I’ve gotten this quarter. My questions to you are, Have you taken your finals yet? and Have you been failing all year or just a quarter, or what?

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surfusa79 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Ontario, CA, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (15 minutes after post)

I passed the first semester by luck, but the second half I’ve been struggling. We haven’t taken our final yet, it’s on June 8th, but I’m already freaking out.

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NisaHEARTStyga offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 82 #
Bronx, NY, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Is there tutoring programs in your school or someone who’s really good at chemistry that can help you study hard for the final? If your final grade is awesome that could really help bring your grade up.

Also, you should relax. The more you stress yourself out, the less you’ll be able to concentrate on studying and getting that grade you need. Are you worried about your college seeing your report card or your final transcript? Because usually the school averages the four quarters…If you did well the first two, that could also help bring up your final grade.

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armstrong_marjori offline Unverified User #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

So…
Let’s look at what will happen if you one of two things happen:

1. (what you want) you pass chemestry and you get into school at Sanfaran. You go to college, and something new begins. You continue your education and live a new life sepret from what you have lived before.

or

2. (what you don’t want) You don’t pass chemestry and you don’t get into school at Sanfran. You will do something new. You will continue your education and live a new life sepret from what you have lived before.

If going to school in San Fransisco is what you want to do, you can. You will. As you said; try your *** off now, if that dosn’t work summer school, if that dosn’t work move to San Fransisco get a job live some life, if that dosn’t work find another avenue to keep your eye on the prize and stay active tword your gole. Taht is the key, keeping your eye on the prize.
Don’t freak out. Just do your best. That’s all you can do. What; honestly, is the worst thing that could happen? What would you do if the worst thing did happened?

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nainachick offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (23 minutes after post)

Stop focusing on what you DON’T want. The universe doesn’t know the difference between what you want and don’t want, it just responds to the energy you put into thinking and feeling about something. So start focusing on getting there. Talk to your chem teacher. Ask him/her about extra credit projects or anything you can do about getting a better grade. you might be surprised what they have to offer.

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NisaHEARTStyga offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 82 #
Bronx, NY, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (28 minutes after post)

Wow, naina that was really good. I completely forgot about extra credit. My physics teacher doesn’t give that :(…a-hole. But yeah, I agree with naina.

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lwpqrsmv. offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 hours, 30 minutes after post)

Is the subject matter hard for you or did you just not apply yourself as you should have. Its good you want to further your education so I’m going to hit on a different angle that needs to be addressed.

I don’t know what field you plan to pursue a degree in, but college is not like high school. You are more individually responsible for your studying and course work. If you plan to pursue a degree in engineering or physics or some area of math or science, the courses are a lot harder in college. There is no one to push you to study or do your work except you.

When you get past this point & you do get into SFSU, somewhere you need to learn to really apply yourself to make it through college. College and being independent is fun, but you also need to learn to be responsible and commit to good study and work habits. You say you screw up alot & think of how this may affect your college work. Always remember if you are having a hard time in a certain course, you can get a tutor or study group to help you through it.

You’re at the end of high school. Enjoy what is left. Do as Nainachick suggests & talk to your teacher to see if there is a way to raise your grade. If you show you really want it, some teachers will work with you.

Good luck & when you get to SFSU in the fall (I’m being positive for you), study and do your course work requirements.

Take care.

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