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thats good but sad

Hi Mills, how is it going? give her time.
you still remember the squidgin’? hugs to you.

i just did Steve. you can always holler on us you know that right. Call on her bro if u need to talk. we’re always here. we are still a family.

hey buddy… a heart like yours couldn’t feel any other way. I’m proud of you. You loved greatly…and your sorrow is great. This is how it is meant to be. Know that your pain is our pain…and your pain is just a measurement of your JOY. But above all this, I know you learned a bright golden lesson.

Most of us have been where you are… and even if that is not the case, we are all connected. I wish you quick acceptance, and therefore peace if not happiness.

Bright blessings ~Rich

I don’t know the story here but I know the pain. Things will get better with time. I hope your pain fades soon.

Unfortunately… words are the cage to our most heartfelt feelings. Often we feel from the heart, and the words are caught in our very human cage. Yet they are not all we have, and you are selling yourself short if you think she does not understand you. The problem is that going backward instead of forward is often very difficult. Hey… I dont know the whole story here… and I don’t have to. I feel your pain, cause I’ve been there plenty of times… and I’ll be there one more time … with you.
Love ~ Rich

I’m sorry you are in such pain. I, too, don’t know your whole story. It doesn’t matter though. I don’t know what to tell you except I care and am here for you like everyone else.

Take care.

Yep that happened to me, only I was the chick. It sucked, the worst I’ve been hurt in my entire life. The guy and I are friends again, but (a) it will never be the same (b) even though I love him and think I have forgiven him, sometimes the memory of what happened in the past, what he said and did then, comes back and gives me sharp pains and makes me wonder, “Is this guy going to do that to me again if I trust him once more?” and “How can this be the same person.” and “What if becomes *evil* so and so once again?”

So, you have to know that when someone you love deeply hurts you it takes a long time for you to be able to trust them again, and the fear of being hurt that badly may stop you from ever trusting them again.

Are you just trying to be friends with this girl or do you want a relationship? Was what happened basically that you told her you didn’t think it was working/neglected her and stopped calling?

Touching poem Steve. You are a fantastic writer. You should consider getting them published or some thing - or putting them all in a book.

(Btw you aint dying - love will come and it will be a shock and be great)

Always your friend Jenny

you are not the only one with a broken heart

i had read your story and it is soo true. this guy i was dating always broke my heart. Mainly from day one and i stayed with him. It was times that he would put me down and compare me to other women,etc. He also used to put his hands on me. Then later on down the line he would just put me down making jokes that hurts and find things wrong with me, just to put me down. Like my hair,etc. Then he tells me that i am not the woman for him,etc. Even though i was there for him every step of the way. He got angry at me , because i was not around to get him out of jail for beating someone else up. Then he tells me that he does not need me anymore, since i was not there one time. I have put up with a lot of his cheating, arrogant ways, etc.

He always was in competition with me, because i make more money than him and because i am in school. Not to mention me having my own business. He would try to deter me from getting things, just so he can be a step ahead of me.

But, he treated me so cold and i did everything for him. I cooked, cleaned, brought him things just because. I have lost a few friends, just because he didnt like me hanging around them. It is like i did a total 180 for him and it is not enough. I am in tears now, because its like……to hear that you love someone so much and they do not love you back.

It takes away from self confidence as a woman. It is like he took away my soul…