What if there is no bad guy?
I’m in a real pickle right now, and I wanna clear some stuff up right away. A lot of people know what’s going on right now, if you don’t, butt out early. I know a lot of people are looking to blame and take sides for pain that people feel. It isn’t fair. It isn’t fair to the people in pain, cause they’re in pain, and fragile, and they don’t deserve to hurt. Also the people who aren’t in pain, don’t deserve to hurt either. As far as I see it nothing done, was done in malice for anyone else. If I had my way, everyone would be happy, all the time, and nobody would ever get hurt. But that sh*t aint the truth. People do get hurt, and for crappy reasons, or crappy situations. I know what I did, I did for love, and for me. I didn’t do ANYTHING TO HURT ANYONE!! And to accuse me or Ditzy of malice that, is wrong on your part. Maybe you don’t know the whole story. Maybe you don’t care. Fine. Fact is, we BOTH love mills, we never wanted to hurt him. We never ever want to hurt ANYONE! And I am not gonna sit here while people try and tell her how to handle the situation, giving her BAD advice, and telling her hurtfull things, when if anyone was in the wrong (WHICH NOBODY WAS) it would be BOTH of us. But again. OUR intention was NEVER pain for ANYONE! ANY ONE! But we will not stand for people accusing, or pointing fingers. If you wanna blame us, fine. That’s your own opinion. Like I said, we both love mills, he’s a great guy. We never intended to hurt him. Ever. Not that it’s really any of your buisiness, but Im not gonna watch people hurt her, or give Mills a reason to hurt more, just cause. Mills, needs friends right now. Not black sheep. He needs love. Not blame. Ditzy and I feel bad enough as it is. Help MILLS now. We have our stuff worked out, we don’t know what we can do to help Mills other than be his friends. Even though I know he hates me right now, I still profess my brotherly love for him.
And just for informations sake. Yes, I did have feeling for Ditzy while Mills and her were together. But ask Mills, I talked to her to help her with him at the time. She was dead afraid of spiders and coming to America,and I AS A FRIEND TO HER AND MILLS talked to her about it, and helped remove her fear, to help them succeed. That’s all I ever wanted while they were together. But if youre gonna blame someone, blame me, cause I wont have ANYONE talking bad about Ditzy, OR Mills for that matter. They are both extremely close to my heart. And Mills, Im gonna stay outta here for a while, but if you ever need me, you know how to get a hold of me.
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What if there is no bad guy?
I’m in a real pickle right now, and I wanna clear some stuff up right away. A lot of people know what’s going on right now, if you don’t, butt out early. I know a lot of people are looking to blame and take sides for pain that people feel. It isn’t fair. It isn’t fair to the people in pain, cause they’re in pain, and fragile, and they don’t deserve to hurt. Also the people who aren’t in pain, don’t deserve to hurt either. As far as I see it nothing done, was done in malice for anyone else. If I had my way, everyone would be happy, all the time, and nobody would ever get hurt. But that sh*t aint the truth. People do get hurt, and for crappy reasons, or crappy situations. I know what I did, I did for love, and for me. I didn’t do ANYTHING TO HURT ANYONE!! And to accuse me or Ditzy of malicethat, is wrong on your part. Maybe you don’t know the whole story. Maybe you don’t care. Fine. Fact is, we BOTH love mills, we never wanted to hurt him. We never ever want to hurt ANYONE! And I am not gonna sit here while people try and tell her how to handle the situation, giving her BAD advice, and telling her hurtfull things, when if anyone was in the wrong (WHICH NOBODY WAS) it would be BOTH of us. But again. OUR intention was NEVER pain for ANYONE! ANY ONE! But we will not stand for people accusing, or pointing fingers. If you wanna blame us, fine. That’s your own opinion. Like I said, we both love mills, he’s a great guy. We never intended to hurt him. Ever. Not that it’s really any of your buisiness, but Im not gonna watch people hurt her, or give Mills a reason to hurt more, just cause. Mills, needs friends right now. Not black sheep. He needs love. Not blame. Ditzy and I feel bad enough as it is. Help MILLS now. We have our stuff worked out, we don’t know what we can do to help Mills other than be his friends. Even though I know he hates me right now, I still profess my brotherly love for him.
And just for informations sake. Yes, I did have feeling for Ditzy while Mills and her were together. But ask Mills, I talked to her to help her with him at the time. She was dead afraid of spiders and coming to America,and I AS A FRIEND TO HER AND MILLS talked to her about it, and helped remove her fear, to help them succeed. That’s all I ever wanted while they were together. But if youre gonna blame someone, blame me, cause I wont have ANYONE talking bad about Ditzy, OR Mills for that matter. They are both extremely close to my heart. And Mills, Im gonna stay outta here for a while, but if you ever need me, you know how to get a hold of me.
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